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  • 12-10-2008 2:58am
    #1
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,012 ✭✭✭✭


    I'm a long time user of boards and sore i'd never start a PI but I need to.

    I have recently moved to a new place, country to be exact, not a whole lot different than home, but I don't know anyone. I was offered a job and kinda wanted a change so said feck it. I know no one where I am, have meet few people through work put limited cause of age difference. To the point.

    Tonight was the 2nd time I was out in the area, fairly lively area btw. Meet a guy through work and his mates so was out with them, I'm a guy btw. I told myself this was a new start, no one knew me, etc. But I am still holding on to my old ways. I was out tonight and three, I would class gorgeous girls moved and started dancing around me, but I didn't act. And this was continued through the night, a couple of more times. I just, to put it simply couldn't pull the trigger.

    Think I should describe how I felt when the three girls started dancing around me, I saw them laughing/smiling and straight away thought "why bother, they'll probably only laugh at you. Think this is how I am thinking, which I know is wrong but so difficult to think different. I'm not the kind of guy that will go around thinking "I'm s**t hot look at me" I just don't think I'm attractive I guess.

    I don't know if I'm looking for advice or what, but I just see myself as always missing opportunities and not acting on them. I realise that people will see the time of this thread and think oh another drunky, but I'm actually quite clear headed. Will post again, I guess this thread makes no sense really, just feeling confused I guess.

    Thanks for reading even if you don't reply!!!


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  • #2
    MagicMarker
    Banned (with Prison Access) Posts: 32,865 ✭✭✭✭MagicMarker


    It doesn't sound like you're a very good drunk. Remember, alcohol is a depressant.

    You say you don't know anyone but you met people through work to go out and get drunk with, and you had hot women eyeing you up. Some people would like to have your problems mate.

    Work on your confidence, hit the gym, stay off the drink for a while.


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