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Strong, Confident, Assertive Woman or B*tch?

  • 09-10-2008 2:39pm
    #1
    Closed Accounts Posts: 1,006 ✭✭✭


    I had the adventure of being at a large Irish train station the other day. I was standing in line near the automatic ticket machine. A loud shout came from the machine area, "No! Leave me alone!" said an agitated womans voice.

    I looked up to see what was happening, as if there was danger in the air I'd prefer to be prepared, to see a woman putting her wallet away while a thin man who hadn't had a shave since Scrubs had a good episode rocked back and forth, a glassy look in his eyes.

    I could be wildly wrong but this is how I interpreted the scene; Man in train station asking strangers for spare change. For whatever reason at all. Woman deciding not to part with her change (again for whatever reason) and telling Man in no uncertain terms to back off.

    If I am right, and if not then we'll take it as a hypothetical situation, how would you interpret the womans declaration. Is she a strong, assertive woman who was possibly slightly afraid of this man and wanted to make sure he backed off? Or a heartless harpie, disgusted by this penniless individual and intent to have others hear her repulsion?

    Sorry, short version of that question is, do you think she shouted because she felt intimidated or because she felt superior?

    Assertive Grrrl or Heartless Harpie? 40 votes

    Assertive - Good on 'er! These people need to be told
    0% 0 votes
    B*tch - She just likes yelling at the train-dwellers
    47% 19 votes
    Atari Junkuar
    35% 14 votes
    Em, I'll be honest, I didn't read your post, I just likes voting
    17% 7 votes


Comments

  • Closed Accounts Posts: 995 ✭✭✭Ass


    Neither. She shouted because she was a whore.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 6,414 ✭✭✭kraggy


    She was probably talking to the machine that was trying to sell her a ticket for a spin in an old-fashioned and very, very late Iarnród Eireann train.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 28,789 ✭✭✭✭ScumLord


    Ass Face wrote: »
    Neither. She shouted because she was a whore.
    Ah I see, so she was off duty.


  • Posts: 8,016 ✭✭✭ [Deleted User]


    That time of the month imo.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 37,214 ✭✭✭✭Dudess


    She probably did it out of frustration at being asked for spare change for the millionth time.


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 18,150 ✭✭✭✭Malari


    Sounds assertive to me. I don't know if shouting was necessary. I probably would have issued a quiet threat to call the guards. It's worked for me in the past.

    I don't know about your "intimidated or superior" conclusion though. Intimidated or angry maybe?


  • Banned (with Prison Access) Posts: 23,555 ✭✭✭✭Sir Digby Chicken Caesar


    how in the hell do you expect anyone here to know?

    maybe she's having her period and instead of blood, gone off milk is dripping out of her.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 1,698 ✭✭✭Dinter


    Neesa wrote: »
    Sorry, short version of that question is, do you think she shouted because she felt intimidated or because she felt superior?

    I'll vote for option "Probably threatened by filthy intimidating scrounger desperate for free money. It's not assertive or being a bitch. In fact she was probably loud so as to attract attention to what she saw as the danger she was in."

    Oh, wait a minute. . .


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 4,990 ✭✭✭Cool_CM


    Mordeth wrote: »
    maybe she's having her period and instead of blood, gone off milk is dripping out of her.
    That mental image is going to stick with me for the rest of the day...lovely


  • Posts: 8,016 ✭✭✭ [Deleted User]


    Cool_CM wrote: »
    That mental image is going to stick with me for the rest of the day...lovely

    Would you like some cereal?


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  • Banned (with Prison Access) Posts: 4,193 ✭✭✭Turd Ferguson


    Maybe she is a robot and her RAM is full...


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 2,268 ✭✭✭mountainyman


    //I'll ram her full


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 27,252 ✭✭✭✭stovelid


    //I'll ram her full

    What, with your floppy?



    /sorry.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 27,351 ✭✭✭✭super_furry


    Mordeth wrote: »
    maybe she's having her period and instead of blood, gone off milk is dripping out of her.

    Couldn't have been. He mentions nothing about a trail of wild cats following her.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 37,214 ✭✭✭✭Dudess


    You think Neesa's a bloke?


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 27,252 ✭✭✭✭stovelid


    If the guy was giving her grief, it was an understandable if OTT reaction.

    If she just started screaming at the guy just because he approached her, she's a witch.


  • Moderators, Arts Moderators Posts: 35,913 Mod ✭✭✭✭pickarooney


    Dudess wrote: »
    You think Neesa's a bloke?

    Who? Oh, you mean Lisa?


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 740 ✭✭✭junior_apollo


    Maybe she was arguing with the voices in her head... they were telling her to go to the north side... she on the other hand valued her life and her... well... valuables... and so refused to succumb to their evil ways... (yes the word cum is in there... teeheehee)


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 23,573 ✭✭✭✭Frisbee


    Neesa wrote: »
    a thin man who hadn't had a shave since Scrubs had a good episode rocked back and forth, a glassy look in his eyes.

    Scrubs is bad ass. All the episodes are good. Although there hasn't been any episodes released in a while so I can forgive your confusion....


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 757 ✭✭✭milod


    Mordeth wrote: »
    how in the hell do you expect anyone here to know?

    maybe she's having her period and instead of blood, gone off milk is dripping out of her.

    I love assertive chicks, regularly, :pac: that was probably my gone off milk dripping out of her...


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 16,998 ✭✭✭✭Nalz


    Ah ffs I was expecting a better story than that


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