father of child back on scene??

animum

Hi all this is my very first post and am looking for opinions. Myself and the father of my child have a very on and off relationship. Basically for 5 years it has been on and off, no other relationships by either side in between. we got back togther around thid time last year and all was going well, but i had gone about an affordable house during one time when we were finished, this came through when we were back togther, but then finished, so i had to live wiht him for abt 3-4 months and pay him rent until i got the keys. i had made it clear that as he finished it it was ot be final, as to not confuse my son. i am living in my new house for the passed 3 months. but in the last 2-3 weeks, we have met in the park and stuff when passing over the child, but he stays around for an hour or so the three of us having fun in the park and yesterday he took us all to a match, and we had a great day! i dunno what to do? is it confusing for the child, but at least we not arguing infront of him, but then he asked the other day could we move back to our old house togther, the house he was born into, where the three of us were togther?? should i just keep it as dropping at the door? also to be honest its confusing me too, because i still love his father very much!?
i honestly dont think he wants to be back with me, i am hearing he is enjoying the single life alot, if u get me!....

Mr. Incognito

Why don't you sit down and have a chat with him and see how he feels.

At the moment he's having the nest of both worlds though isn't he.

animum

Oh defintley, he has his happy family in one hand and god only knows what, in the other!! my main worry here is my son, should i keep the 'family' trips in the park or cut them off??
Also his father isnt the sit down and talk type of person, he is a do'er rather than a talker, as in he asked us to the match, but he wouldnt discuss 'how come u asked us, when your uncle etc was going anyway?'
he replied: did u enjoy the match? i said yes, discussion over

Mr. Incognito

well it's obvious you're happy enough just being strung along but you're son is in this too.

If you love him, tell him. If he doesn't feel the same then you can start moving on with your life.

animum

Fair point i suppose!! im better off just keeping the swop overs at the door and leave it at that!!