To give it a go or leave well alone.....

LegacyUser

Ok.... Started seeing this guy, absolute gent, sweetheart adorable... i could go on here forever he's really that sweet.... totally fell for him the minute i met him... so we've seen eachother every few days since we first met which was only bout a month ago... so a week ago he tells me he needs to come over and speak to me about something serious.... long story short.... the x is pregnant was seeing her for 2 years and she finished with him and they decided they were going to get back together even though she was pregnant... shes 7 months gone so like the baby will be here in 2 months...

So what the feck do i do?? I am a parent myself so i know what its like having a child and the feelings that come with it..... and of course ive thought what if they change there mind when the baby comes and decided the want to give it another go.. even though he's saying now that, that is not a possibility....

I just dont know what to do my head is all over the place, i really like him and i know its only a month but you know when you meet someone and you just know that there the right person.... well thats how i feel...

Anyone been in this position before....

Mr. Incognito

bout a month ago

Come down from the clouds. This guy is just human like everyone else.

they decided they were going to get back together

Well there's you answer. He's not THE ONE. He's just a bloke you're in lust with.

You'll have forgotten about him in 6 months and will have a new Mr Perfect.

gubby

I am afraid I dont agree with Setantal. I think that you should take a step back... see how it flows. This guy has been straight up with you and may need a friend in the coming weeks months years. one thing.. you said in your post "they had decided they were going to get back together even though she was pregnant" can you explaine. I dont know what that means.. did they split up.. then she got pregnant? found out that she was pregnant? why do you say "even though she was pregnant?"
confused!!!

Loose Lips

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long story short.... the x is pregnant was seeing her for 2 years and she finished with him and they decided they were going to get back together even though she was pregnant

OP: You've been dumped...

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So what the feck do i do??

Get your glad rags on, hit the town, and forget all about him!

LegacyUser

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I think she forgot to write "not", i think it would make more sense in this context... Otherwise it doesn't sound like there is a decision to make....

Femelade

unregtothemax wrote: »

I think she forgot to write "not", i think it would make more sense in this context... Otherwise it doesn't sound like there is a decision to make....

Yeah , i thought the same, i think she meant that even though she is pregnant thay decided not to get back together, so she is wondering what happens now after the baby is born, will he want to get back with her etc..

I think you should just stick with it if you feel he is right for you.
A baby doesnt necessesarily bring people together.