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Bitchy "mate"

  • 20-09-2008 12:54am
    #1
    useful_contacts
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    ok so theres this girl called danielle ,i never knew her before my sis did (ill elablorate) my sis is with her husband 10 years (married for 2 years) and he is in the army. they have 2 kids. they have a friend Jay whos also in the army who met Danielle five months ago and they started dating. During that time my sis n danielle became firm friends.

    so jay and danielle broke up and a month later danielles flat was flooded cos of all the rain and my sis took her in for a few days while she found somewhere else to live.(bear in mind my sis is the kind of person who hates conflict and cant tell someone when they have outstayed there welcome)Anyway Danielle was living with my sis,and me and danielle became good mates(shes just like me in every way) . Eventually my sister was hinting at her to move out (it had been a month) and she didnt get the hint so i took it upon myself to find her a place( in the month she had not given my sis a CENT towards food or water etc and my sis was cooking and washing for her every day) .

    My best friend Shaz was lookin for a tenant for her house and so danielle took it.It was 5 days before danielle moved into shazs house that i found out what danielle was really like, she had been BITCHING TO MY SISTERS ABOUT shaz who is MY BEST FRIEND (WHO HAS ALLERGIES TO CATS AND STILL LET MY FRIEND MOVE HER CAT IN).

    MY SISTERS TOLD ME (WE ARE REALLY CLOSE) AND I AM SO MAD. IVE BEEN MAD AT HER FOR THE LAst WEEK, SHE KNOWS WHY IM MAD AT HER AND SHE HAS SAID SORRY BUT IT MEANS NOTHING. i am so angry my mate went out of her way(the cat thing)to let her move in and she starts bitchn about her when she doesnt know her.

    I have also met an old friend of danielles recently who told me shes a gold digger and since then ive found out shes been shagging my brother (who got 50,000 recently from a settlement) so tbh i think shes a user.

    A lot of my mates have said to me that im right about being mad , id just love some outsiders opinions cos shes been in our lives about 2 months and TBH she seems fishy to me...


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  • #2
    MagicMarker
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    I've yet to meet a woman person who doesn't bitch behind other peoples backs in some way shape or form... Unless you've never done this yourself then i suggest you not judge her on it. Plus she apologized so credit where credit's due.

    As for the gold digging, it's just gossip and falls into the ''people bitching behind other peoples back''.... So forget about it...

    Regarding her staying in your sister's house for a month and not contributing a single cent etc? That alone would tell me that she's a user, so my advice to you is to forget about her.


  • #3
    Jack B. Badd
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,294 ✭✭✭Jack B. Badd


    Almost everyone bitches about other people to some extent. Your sister needs to become more assertive and not have you doing her dirty work for her. Your brother, presumably, is big enough and ugly enough to take care of himself. Your friend Shaz can do the same and if Danielle is such a bitch, she'll find out sooner rather than later and Danielle will be looking for another place to live...again. If you're so worried, tell Shaz what you know.
    I really don't know how you figure into this apart from taking it upon yourself to be put out on behalf of others. These people are adults, it sounds like it's not really any of your business, dramatic though I'm sure it appears.


  • #4
    useful_contacts
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    Jack B. Badd wrote: »
    Your friend Shaz can do the same and if Danielle is such a bitch, she'll find out sooner rather than later and Danielle will be looking for another place to live...again. If you're so worried, tell Shaz what you know.
    shaz asked me last night why i was not talking to danielle and i had to lie to her and say danielle was talking about me. Shaz is prone to depression and is very sensitive, if i told her the truth she would be very down, shes very low in self confidence and people liking her meand a lot to her
    Jack B. Badd wrote: »
    I really don't know how you figure into this apart from taking it upon yourself to be put out on behalf of others.
    to be honest that sounds rude, i took it upon myself to find a place for daniele cos my sister was crying on my shoulder saying shes sick of taking care of her , and my sis is in no way assertive so if i didnt do it nothing would be done, as danielle had not even looked in the apartment section of the paper so had no intention of going
    Jack B. Badd wrote: »
    it sounds like it's not really any of your business, dramatic though I'm sure it appears.
    someone using my family and friends? that is my business!


  • #5
    Jack B. Badd
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,294 ✭✭✭Jack B. Badd


    useful_contacts wrote: »
    shaz asked me last night why i was not talking to danielle and i had to lie to her and say danielle was talking about me. Shaz is prone to depression and is very sensitive, if i told her the truth she would be very down, shes very low in self confidence and people liking her meand a lot to her


    to be honest that sounds rude, i took it upon myself to find a place for daniele cos my sister was crying on my shoulder saying shes sick of taking care of her , and my sis is in no way assertive so if i didnt do it nothing would be done, as danielle had not even looked in the apartment section of the paper so had no intention of going

    someone using my family and friends? that is my business!

    I'm presuming your sister and friend are adults (please correct me if wrong). If they are not sufficiently adult to deal with the reality of the situation, then they shouldn't be letting part of their homes out to others (whether or not they are paid for it).
    If you're going to continue to shelter them from the real world, you're next best move would be talking to Danielle about her behaviour. However, I maintain that none of it is directly your problem and it's up to them to live their own lives.


  • #6
    Chinafoot
    Closed Accounts Posts: 9,894 ✭✭✭Chinafoot


    useful_contacts wrote: »
    shaz asked me last night why i was not talking to danielle and i had to lie to her and say danielle was talking about me. Shaz is prone to depression and is very sensitive, if i told her the truth she would be very down, shes very low in self confidence and people liking her meand a lot to her

    If you knew all this about your friend Shaz, why on earth would you have arranged for this girl who used your sister to move in with her? I don't get that. You knew this girl was a user, you wanted her out of your sisters house, so you sent her to your best mate who is very sensitive....yeah, good work.


    If Danielle and Shaz don't get on then Shaz will have to ask her to leave.
    If your brother wants to sleep with Danielle, it's none of your business. He can make his own decisions there.
    Your sister should learn from this experience, grow a backbone and not be walked over in future.


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