Social Disaster

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On Sunday night,I got paralytic on free beer after a festival and ended up acting like a big groupie with my mates band, throwing myself at the drummer and getting sick in my mates sink.

I was so embarrassed and now the band think I'm a big stalker and groupie.(I have way to much respect for myslef to sleep with someone just cause they are in a band) I am in a long term relationship and thank God I managed to stop myself from getting off with the drummer! But now my mate(also in the band) thinks i'm a right twat and yes I behaved like one but I don't want that to be my reputation.


What should I do. Should I lay off and not talk to any of them for a while?I

Karen_*

Is that the first time you acted like that around your mate? How do you know what the band think?

Try talking to your mate about what happened. It it was a once off then there's no reason for you to get a reputation over it. Its probably far bigger in your mind than in any of theirs.

fasty

Apologise for getting so drunk and making a fool of yourself then keep the head down for a bit. In time, just chat normally to them if you see them and lay off the booze a bit!

It happens to the best of us and most people understand this.

Pen1987

^ +1

Just tell them your were drunk and youre seriously embarassed about it now.

enda1

SocialDisaster wrote: »

First Time Poster
On Sunday night,I got paralytic on free beer after a festival and ended up acting like a big groupie with my mates band, throwing myself at the drummer and getting sick in my mates sink.

I was so embarrassed and now the band think I'm a big stalker and groupie.(I have way to much respect for myslef to sleep with someone just cause they are in a band) I am in a long term relationship and thank God I managed to stop myself from getting off with the drummer! But now my mate(also in the band) thinks i'm a right twat and yes I behaved like one but I don't want that to be my reputation.


What should I do. Should I lay off and not talk to any of them for a while?I

I'd be more concerned about the fact that you tried to cheat on your partneer than wha tthe band think to be honest.

tbh

allow time to pass. This is only a big deal because it's recent. You're not the first person to make a fool of themselves drunk, and you won't be the last. It happens.