I hate condoms!

theganster

I really just do not like condoms at all - they really put a dampner on the situation for me. I have difficulty reaching orgasm at the best of times, but if I am wearing a condom there is zero chance of me cumming at all. Quite frustrating and girls don't like it much easier.

Perhaps I need to try different brands or lube or something cause they can be sore at times.

Anyone else the same, any suggestions?

cowzerp

you dont say if your in a relationship or playing the field?

if your playing the field then condom sex is better than aids and no sex...

if your in a happy relationship then the pill might suffice!

Mr. Presentable

theganster wrote: »

I really just do not like condoms at all

Would you prefer an STD?

Try some of the lighter ones and use a lube if necessary, but don't catch something because you don't like condoms.

futura123

as a bisexual man i always use condoms, dont notice any difference tbh

scruff321

man your probably drunk aswell which never helps!happens to alot of people!

Toots

If you find condoms sore, are you using the right size? Or is it possible you might be allergic to latex? If you're not in a relationship, and just playing the field, condoms are pretty much your only man. Apart from abstinence, but that's not very realistic.

theganster

I'm not in a relationship, just playing the field. I'm not suggesting not using condoms, i obviously do not want a kid or an std.

I'm average sized so I don't think condom size is a problem, I've never tried lube before, can someone give me some advice? Do I lube my penis before I put the sondom on? Maybe I should try featherlite condoms, do they make a difference?

SnowMonkey

theganster wrote: »

I'm not in a relationship, just playing the field. I'm not suggesting not using condoms, i obviously do not want a kid or an std.

I'm average sized so I don't think condom size is a problem, I've never tried lube before, can someone give me some advice? Do I lube my penis before I put the sondom on? Maybe I should try featherlite condoms, do they make a difference?

featherlite ae awsome.. there the only one i use...

Kinetic^

I'm not a fan of them myself but I hate kids more!

Jimmy Bottlehead

I have the same issue - find that condoms really kill the mood... among other things
BUT... if your partner (I know you're playing the field, but the partner on the night!) is enthusiastic about it, it helps... as does lube. Put some lube inside the condom before putting it on. Also, if she rolls it down (with lubed hands) while you hold the top or vice versa, it can also help. Personally, I find the Mates double pleasure condoms to be the best, or the Durex ones. I feel your pain on this one though!

SnowMonkey

Mates double pleasure condoms where do you get them ?

or are they a boots joby...
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jessbeth

Don't use the lube before you put the condom on. You might want to try the non latex super thin ones made from a large company (not sure if it goes against the rules to post the name) but I'm sure you know who I mean. Make putting on the condom part of the whole sex thing and get the girl to do it, have a few jokes and a laugh about it too, that will ease the moment. Try not to drink too much alcohol before sex because that will lessen your chances of really enjoying it anyway. Oh and make sure that the lube is water based and not anything containing wax because that can weaken the latex causing it to tear.

Mr. Presentable

Do not put lube inside a condom if you want it to stay on!

Jimmy Bottlehead

jessbeth wrote: »

Don't use the lube before you put the condom on.

Why do you say this?

nipplenuts wrote: »

Do not put lube inside a condom if you want it to stay on!

Only ever happened me once, don't think it effects things?

jessbeth

Jimmy Bottlehead wrote: »

Why do you say this?

Because if you lube the inside of the condom the chances are much higher that it will slip off and you will it will reduce your sensitivity because it's just adding another layer between you and the girl.

Tar.Aldarion

They suck but kids are worse.
Try thinner ones and such. NOT performa. ugh

skibum

I used to hate the fu7king things until I tried Durex avanti, there is no comparison between the "normal" ones and these. They are a bit pricey but give them a go, you will notice a big difference.

After 2 kids, I got the snip, no more worries or running down to the late night chemist for pregnancy testing kits (never got the scarey news during the day!)

LegacyUser

whether you like them or not I can tell you to wear them or risk getting a girl pregnant because the last thing you want to do is trust a girl who says shes on the pill or has any other contraceptive. every single girlfriend i have had has had days where she didnt take the pill. she just brushed it off as if it was ok, sometimes they didn't even remember they didn't take it which i found shocking. as a man, take responsibility, i know 3 guys who trusted girls with contraception stupidly and got them pregnant on one night stands. of course the girls, in the heat of the moment will say they don't want you to slap on a condom as it does feel much better without one, but put one on. i hope you take my advise.

AARRRGH

I used to be the same as you, until I realised Durex were the problem. They are the Budweiser of condoms.

Try Mates. They are comfortable and not particularly noticible.

MikeHoncho

AARRRGH wrote: »

I used to be the same as you, until I realised Durex were the problem. They are the Budweiser of condoms.

Try Mates. They are comfortable and not particularly noticible.

+ 1.

Just try out a few different brands until you find one that you like. Mates are probably the second easiest to find behind Durex. Also in trying them out you get to have lots of sex. Which is nice.