another night out

McSween

i fancy a girl, and have only access through her friend. i dont to overdo contact from my side but want to maintain my interest at the same time. please read on :

was at a wedding last friday 2 weeks and my cousin's wife said to come over to their house the next day so i could meet a single friend of her sister's whom is looking for a long term relationship.

so i went over, it went well, and my cousin said i would have to be patient for anything to happen. that is fine, i am patient and am looking for female companionship too.

so the group of 3 girls invited us all to a table quiz which was to take place last friday week. i went out and as it was about 20 miles away i opted to drive and have an early night. had a good time and got on well with her as she was at the table next to me on a different team.

so i chatted to a few others and when i said i was leaving i went back over to the table where the girl in question was sitting and said a friendly goodbye to them.

so her friend came out to the car with me and said "we'll have another night out if you like and maybe you two can exchange numbers then". i said that i was on for that and i thought the girl was gorgeous and like her i was going to take things slowly, no hurry.

as i had a stag the following day and they had a wedding, on the monday i sent her a text to see how the wedding went, in order to maintain an interest in her friend. she said she would keep me posted on their nights out especially her friends. it has been a week and i would love to head out with them again but i havent heard anything since those texts. should i wait another few days or should i ask have they any plans for heading out.

again, i am not bothered if anything happens should we go out again, i'd rather work on something that may last.

Miss Fluff

Why do you have to go through her friends?

Is she a celebrity and has minders or is under some kind of witness protection scheme where she can't disclose her details?

Or does she do everything with the approval of her friends? If the latter I presume she can't be more than fourteen tbh....

McSween

to be honest i could've probably got the number myself the last night but i would rather another night out, get the number in person and get to know her, rather than texting every night since then and letting text messages take over.

vandermeyde

Get her number and ring her, ask her out on a date. Keep it Simple Simon.

Colonel_McCoy

Ring the friend..get the number and call her and ask her out. Job done! Forget the going out with friend, go on a date........ its shake and bake time!

RedXIV

McSween wrote: »

to be honest i could've probably got the number myself the last night but i would rather another night out, get the number in person and get to know her, rather than texting every night since then and letting text messages take over.

If you're not going to get the number off her friends then all you can do is ask what's the plan? Personally, i'd ask if they are heading out this weekend...hmmmm but maybe tomorrow or thursday instead of today.

Also, let your interest in the girl be known. Playing games with a middle man always ends up extremely messy, so lets not leave anyone with any illusions

Petrolium Hat

Maybe(only maybe) if you were 11 this would be normal.

Unless you're driving illegally at that age then im guessing you're an adult.

Grow up and get this girls number.