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LegacyUser

hey folks just wanted to get this off my chest , went out last night with the gf and a few friends was out clubbing nd decided to book into a hotel. started having sex but seems im having this problem as im waiting to get a circumcision have to wait till next april so during sex i have to stop to fix my um penis but last night was the worst ever it usually doesnt seem to be a problem but i just kept going soft and my gf was getting mad and freaked out .

last week my gf done a pregnancy test but it turned out negative . i didnt think i ever came when ever we had sex and i kinda told her but last night my gf turns around and says we'll probablly have to get u a stripper i was like why ? and she says well first u say u never cum when were having sex and now u cant even get it up . now maybe she was messing when saying this but i didnt like her saying it all

i didnt even have much to drink so i dont know why i kept going soft dont think its stress either so

sweet-rasmus

get advice from your doctor.

Begob

Your "girlfriend" in inverted comma's needs to cop on.

She is insulting you.Thats not girlfriend material if you ask me.
Go find one that appreciates you and dump that wagon.
It's what she deserves if she's going on like that.
She doesn't deserve you anyhow

BOYCEY2008

She should count herself lucky you dont come! Wot do you mean when you say you have to fix yourself, is it an issue with foreskin? does it effect sensation? Need more info before I can comment, but she shouldnt make fun of the situation, it can be VERY hurtful for men, and wont help your situation.Talk to her, explain how you feel.

Gary ITR

Have you explained properly to your girlfriend what the situation is with your penis?

Most women blame themselves if a guy is having difficulties maintaining an erection or can't ejaculate. In reality I would think she is not mad at you and just feeling insecure about herself. Women are delicate creatures and sometimes just need a bit of reassurance

LegacyUser

yes it is a problem with my foreskin its too tight so sometimes i need to stop to fix it . yesm y gf knows what the problem is i have

Gary ITR

Just give her a bit of reassurance that it's not down to her. That it's totally down to you. I was in a similiar situation, I was taking medication for a few weeks and one of the side effects was ejaculation 'problems'. Basically I couldn't come. My girlfriend knew about the problem but still took it as her fault, I had to keep reassuring her that it wasn't.

Hope this helps

LegacyUser

i have told her its not down to her but i dunno whats up . she knows that this is gonna be a recacuring problem til i get my operation . it just makes me feel real down that this happens all the time and the way our health service is its just madness that i've to wait over a year to get an operation done to fix my problem.

oh yea begob she probablly sounds like a wagon but i do love her so

0utpost31

What exactly is the problem? Can you not pull your skin back?

You can get it back if you try over about a month. Just pull it back a bit more every day and eventually it will become more elastic.

Circumcision is a bad idea. When you're not having sex, eg. walking around town, your helmet will be rubbing against your boxers, strengthening the skin, making it tough and eventually less sensitive.

MagicMarker

The issue here is not his foreskin, that is in the process of being taken care of. Sometimes circumcision is needed. There's nothing wrong with that.

The issue is his complete bitch of a girlfriend.

OP, don't settle for this girl, dump her.

LegacyUser

I've had the tight foreskin problem and had it sorted in a few months. Your best bet is to just take your mind off it. For me personally, I never had any issue reaching orgasm.

So I'm assuming you've got it a little rougher than I did. Does masturbation do the trick?

I don't think you'd be able to orgasm during sex if its going to be on your mind to be honest. Any kinda distractions like that are likely to put you off in my opinion (although i can't comment on sex with a tight foreskin, as i never had sex before circumcision).

0utpost31 wrote: »

You can get it back if you try over about a month. Just pull it back a bit more every day and eventually it will become more elastic.

It won't.

Circumcision is a bad idea.

Its not. Most people are circumcised, and its a much healthier option (hygienically speaking).

When you're not having sex, eg. walking around town, your helmet will be rubbing against your boxers, strengthening the skin, making it tough and eventually less sensitive.

The ONLY downside to getting circumcised is the week or so after the operation when just getting around is a pain in the cock (literally).

Your foreskin does get less sensitive over time, yes. But not much.


Circumcision > Tight foreskin.

Alice1

Oh she sounds nasty! How incredibly unkind!

I agree with the others - this person is not good enough for you. Get rid.

Nevyn

Circumcised wrote: »

Its not. Most people are circumcised,

Not in this country.

Circumcised wrote: »

and its a much healthier option (hygienically speaking).

Not medically proven.


I would be more worried about her being an insensitive clod tbh.