size matters!!

LegacyUser

Going unreg for this. i dont know how i feel.have been seeing a guy for the past 3 weeks and last night things heated up a bit,to cut to the chase he took out his manhood and i nearly died.I think is was about 12 inches. now i have been with a few guys and all were sort of 5 or6 inches. i got such a shock that i stopped everything.i could not imagine having it inside me in any way. i felt really bad because he is a nice guy. average height etc but his penis actually scared me. Is it just me, maybe others have dealt with similar sizes etc. what do i do?. i am quite petite, is it too much for me?

Marksie

the vagina is elastic, though i can understand your concerns . The girth may cause problems as well..in which case lube and being gentle.

Certainly avoid positions initially where he is doing the thrustnig.
So go for women on top position where you can control what happening, the depth, speed etc.
Alternatively look at crossed T positions or closed thigh positions where penetration is shallow.

Slowy gently first though .

gaybitch

http://www.lpsg.org/

Large penis support group. Could be worth a look.

0utpost31

I feel sorry for yer man. Like, I'd love to have a 12incher for the craic, but it's just not practical.

You could never pound away... I wont get into it. Oops that was a pun wasn't it.

If he's anyway experienced, he would have come across (oops) this situation before and is able to avoid hurting the girl. he just needs to guage the depth and then work from there.

Sorry for the graphic post but we are talking about 12inch langers here so...

Is it all over between you and him now? Or are you going to see him again?

Gyalist

Your petite size has absolutely nothing to do with it. It's all in the preparation (foreplay).

Marksie is correct. Some positions would be best avoided until you get used to his size e.g doggy-style. Though I have met a few women who enjoy having their cervix bumped most do not like it. So he has to be cautious at first but you would be surprised at how easily your body will adapt to him.

Nevyn

There are positions what will limit how deep he goes into you and there are ones which elongate the vagina and there is a sex aid device known as 'the doughnut' that can be used to help the situation.

It's not impossible just awkward until you figure things out.

LegacyUser

is it really unusual, i have never seen one like it, that site is awful. have any women her experience of it

Kold

If my experience in watching porn has told me anything it's that petite girls can indeed take very large penises.

Marksie

Kold wrote: »

If my experience in watching porn has told me anything it's that petite girls can indeed take very large penises.

and the one thing i have learned from porn is that it causes more stress, performance anxiety, inability to live up to fake expectations and pure bad technique than its ultimately worth.

Under no circumstances should it be used as a guide how to do things

Auldloon

Marksie wrote: »

and the one thing i have learned from porn is that it causes more stress, performance anxiety, inability to live up to fake expectations and pure bad technique than its ultimately worth.

Under no circumstances should it be used as a guide how to do things

Completely agree. In my experience petite girls are just that..petite

00_katie_00

Being a petite girl myself I can vouch for that. Maybe have a discussion with him regarding how he handled this situation with previous partners? He may know certain tricks & tips...

jackdaw

It's tough ..

I have the same problem (but I'm a guy) and mine's about 14 inches ..

It's just about meeting the right girl ..

Beruthiel

jackdaw wrote: »

It's tough ..

I have the same problem (but I'm a guy) and mine's about 14 inches ..

It's just about meeting the right girl ..

*Yawn*