Thinking of a Prostitute?

LegacyUser

Is it wrong to have sex with a prostitute? Primarily because you have to pay here...At the moment, I think I would...but don't get me wrong, I'd rather with a "normal" person if I did, but I'm saying if you came across the opportunity at one stage, would you, or wouldn't you, and is it wrong?

Just I was in a situation where it could have happened, but denied it...what you think?

AARRRGH

No, it's not wrong. I know a lot of prostitutes and they all do it by choice. A few of them left the industry but soon returned as the money is simply too good.

So I don't think it is wrong, but I do think it is a bit depressing as you know the girl doesn't really want to have sex with you.

Personally I would try to get sex the traditional way... the €300 or whatever you save can be put to another use!

Victor

OP, this board is for Personal Issues, not general discussion. Do you want to reframe your post?

RoosterIllusion

I see nothing wrong with it.

Personally, I am not in a position where I feel I want to or need to. I doubt I ever will be either.

Diarmey

the €300 or whatever

Woah €300 where do you live?:P
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Its wrong its as good as getting raped for money.
Most women or men who are prostitues have drug addiction problems and you are only feeding the habit.

+ imagine thenshame you would go through people knowing you are a 'kerbcrawler'{\}

AARRRGH

Diarmey wrote: »

Its wrong its as good as getting raped for money.
Most women or men who are prostitues have drug addiction problems and you are only feeding the habit.

+ imagine thenshame you would go through people knowing you are a 'kerbcrawler'

I would agree there is a big difference between a street prostitute and a non-street prostitute, i.e. an escort.

For the record I am talking about the escort side of things.

Escorts typically do not have drug problems.

Your comment about it being like getting raped for money is simply ridiculous as both the woman and the man are agreeing to have sex.

Wibbs

OK OP what's the personal issue for you specifically? I don't want this going down the road of a humanities type discussion on prostitution. That's what humanities is for folks.

LegacyUser

Diarmey wrote: »

Woah €300 where do you live?:P
{mature}
+ imagine thenshame you would go through people knowing you are a 'kerbcrawler'{\}

once upon a time there was a guy named Han Xin who lived in china. He was a kung fu master and everybody knew of this. One day two scumbags stopped him on the street and demanded a fight. When Han Xin walked on, they followed and demanded that he either fight them to the death or crawl like a dog through their legs (the ULTIMATE shame in china at the time). Xin got down on his legs and crawled through their legs. As word spread of his cowardice he offered no explanation and continued to live his life normally. When he got older retired as one of Chinas greatest generals he was asked why he offered no explanation. He simply said he didn't feel the need to kill the men and the thought of what anyone else would think about him never came into his consideration.

Perhaps you can learn from this story. Xin was extremely mentally advanced, but it is possible to attain this state and not even consider "the other people" and their judgements.

I'm sure you'll find a way to mock this post though. I did it for my own amusement. Believe me, I don't expect you to understand it.

LegacyUser

There's nothing wrong with it but whether you want to do it is another thing. I've only ever done it once on a lads trip in England. I found it ungratifying to tell the truth. There's just something missing in the whole thing that just makes it seem like glorified masturbation.