Are all lads full of crap??

andreac

Im recently out of a long term relationship,7yrs,, since jan so im back on the dating scene again.Ive forgotten what its like to out on the scene again. Ive met a few lads since jan, nothin serious but they all seem to be full of crap and full of empty promises, like saying they will ring, text or meet up but then dont.
For example i met a nice lad out last nite and he gave me his number and said he would love to meet up today and to give him a shout today and we would meet up, so last nite when i was on way home i rang and text hi and everythin seemed great, we were by no means drunk so it wasnt just drunken talk.
So today i rang him, no answer and left voicemail, he replied back sayin he was driving and sorry he didnt get back to me and yes he would like to meet today and where will we go and so on. I suggested a place and he said yeah sounds good and he would call me when he got home as he was driving.
That was at 3pm today and i havent heard back from him since.
So what is it about lads,are they all full of crap and do they realise they mess with our heads when they say and do this stuff?

GrumPy

No.

Kiera

Easy tiger. Anything could have happened. Give him a break. You did only meet him last night but you are sounding very pushy already. Maybe you came across pushy with him on the phone today and he backed off or maybe something came up?

Leave it as is and if you dont hear from him in a few days jsut forget about him.

And no, not all guys are full of crap just a very small number of them are.

andreac

thanks for the reply,i dont think i was being pushy. He was the one who asked me last nite to meet today and offered his number and kept sayin to call him today and we would meet, so he was the one who wanted to meet so dont think i was coming across too strong, if anything it was the other way around.
Maybe i just havent found the right one yet but i havent had mny good experiences in the last few months. Ill give him benefit and see if he contacts and sure if he doesnt well hes not worth it.

Kiera

Excatly You'll meet someone and it'll be when you least expect it (cheesy i know but its true)

Zulu

How very astute of you!
You are of course entirely correct; every man is full of crap. Recent studies are pointing in the direction of a subtle chemical difference in the left frontal lobe of the brain, that causes amongst other things, a compulsion to fabricate the truth, make empty promises, and generally try to mess with peoples heads (in particular womens).

event

maybe he crashed his car and died?
maybe a family member died?
maybe he got amnesia?
maybe he went to the pub?
or maybe he simply isnt that much into you?

so after 7 years you have met a few lads(how many, 3 or 4?), they were all idiots so therefore all men are full of crap?

Kevster

You're just meeting the wrong people and, I assure you, all lads are not full of crap. Be patient with this because 7 years is a long time to be with someone. Try - if you will - to focus on developing your own life apart from relationships (i.e. - seek-out your own personal goals). If you do that, then I think you will find that love will spring upon you most unexpectedly.

Take care my dear,
Kevster.

Liam Byrne

Zulu wrote: »

Recent studies are pointing in the direction of a subtle chemical difference in the left frontal lobe of the brain, that causes amongst other things, a compulsion to fabricate the truth, make empty promises, and generally try to mess with peoples heads (in particular womens).

Thought you were describing the female brain for a moment there, Zulu.....!!!

Guess there's no difference between "some" women and "some" men after all, so!!!!