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In Pain from Breaking up

  • 27-08-2008 7:55am
    #1
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 212 ✭✭


    I feel absolutely gutted at the minute and there's nothing I can do about it.
    Was going out with my ex for 6 months, and about exactly when we broke up she was with some one else, and it's killing me. Should I be upset? I mean, we weren't getting on that well, and I think that breaking up was probably the best idea, but it hurts so much that she's with someone else, and I feel that this guy was part of the reason that she broke up with me. She's all I think about every minute of the day and it hurts so bad.
    Do girls always have someone else lined up before they break up with you? Well that has been my experience anyway.


Comments

  • Closed Accounts Posts: 6,395 ✭✭✭Marksie


    Ok, well its alright to be upset, but allow it to get out of your system, rather than allow it to dominate.

    You know yourself it was coming and thus its not a real surprise. I guess the major, for you, thing was that she already had someone else. But put it in context.
    You may very well be correct in saying that the guy was part of the reason, but not the whole reasson, you essentially were heading that way. This may in fact have just been the catalyst.

    It defintely does happen, with both men and women. But do not assume it always happens or that in the majority of cases it does.

    Best to move on, but look at the whole thing as a lesson, why you were arguing, not getting on. Thats the most important point, the beginnings of the breakup, not the final step.


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