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  • 24-08-2008 8:11pm
    #1
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭


    Hi

    I really need to a vent and b get some oppions on this problem...

    I recently meet the most wonderfull amazeing beautifull, funny, laid back spritual, with connection's, ive never once thuaght I could have, I swear to you its like looking at someone you've known have your life, well i truly got this feeling....

    anyway, i find my self drifting in loss... I can't turn to any one about this, so i find my self in the world of boards. We cant be togeather because she's more interested in the same sex as her self. yet she wants to be friends. I've not known where to turn to who to turn to or what even to think, on one side i met the most amazeing girl ive ever met on the other hand ive had it all taken away from me....

    I want to be this girls friend but i want so much more then just friends. I see her on my bebo and i just flood with feelings and emotion's, that ive thaught existed but exist to such an extent that i havent eatin in a week well snacked but not eatin I feel lost I feel like crying and not out of faustration or hate i feel it because i never felt a connection like this, (at this point I'd lke to say i can controll my emoions and im not desperate ) Its so hard to forget about in some many way's...........

    I feel like wanting to hide away from the world, and just not be here in that sence, its hit me harder to day then any other day ive yet to experence.. I keep thinking what if? but i catch my self and just try to think of something else.

    Im trying to remain hugley positive ive got a date next week with another girl who seems ok.... But i keep comparing women to this other girl soley on personality alone something I've never done in my life, i feel confused upset lost, Thankfully work has me busy so i dont have much time to dwell on such problems.....

    I find my self having a dession to make one which i dont want to make....

    a; delete her from bebo her number her msn and forget that i ever made contact with her, and set my account to private. Pretty drastic......

    B; keep contacting her staying friends and knowing my life would be a lot more missrible with out her not in it

    c; suck it up except it to be the way it is.....


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  • #2
    Le Rack
    Closed Accounts Posts: 9,846 ✭✭✭Le Rack


    is she most definately lesbian? or bi-curious or what? keep being friends, and see how it goes, a girl I'm mates with is going out with a "gay" chap the past three months or so. ye never know...


  • #3
    That_Guy
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 51,342 ✭✭✭✭That_Guy


    Firstly.... Eat something.... Don't starve yourself over this.

    Anyway you said that she's more interested in the same sex but what I gather is that she hasn't told you that she's 100% lesbian so you may still have a chance.

    If she's someone who can talk to easily without judging you then maybe you should tell her how you feel. At least you know where you'll stand and you won't have to torture yourself over it.


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