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Getting on really well with Ex

  • 23-08-2008 9:55pm
    #1
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,012 ✭✭✭✭


    split up with my ex about 3 weeks ago or so. we'd only been going out for about three months but we'd had a bumpy start and as such both had issues with the other. we're both incredibly stuborn and so getting over these was not really happening and so I called it a day.

    so we stayed out of contact with each other for the three weeks since, cept for the occasional over text argument which we'd resolve the next day or so.
    anyways I ran into her in the pub on thursday and we where getting on really well and one thing led to another and we wound up sleeping together again, all the old feelings where there. we met up again today for a pint to just hang out and everything was cool and we just chatted and there was a bit of flirting and we where talking about the issues in question etc and they now seem not so intermountable.
    my head is such a mess cos on one hand I miss her and on the other I'm sure (on my part) I'll probably balls it all up. basically I know if we could get passed our stupid issues we'd be a great couple but I'm not sure.


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  • #2
    MugMugs
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 17,875 ✭✭✭✭MugMugs


    And things could go back to the blissful honeymoon that you had and work their way on for the next 12 months.

    You will most likely ease back into the way you were and fight and split again only this time, it will hurt.

    Some people get on great and have a great time together but are not meant to be together and if you are sparking each other after three months then whats it going to be like in three years ?

    Walk away.... save yourself and herself from hurt and pain later on down the line.... Been there, done that :)


  • #3
    projectmayhem
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 9,480 ✭✭✭projectmayhem


    Best way to do things is to either cut off all ties completely to avoid future hurt/complications. If you can get a good friendship out of it then you've gotten a bonus, but I wouldn't go towards a relationship situation so soon after breaking up.


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