Break ups

LegacyUser

Don't really know where to start with this.....

Basically myself and the boyf broke up a few weeks ago, we've broken up before and always gotten back on track. However this time was different, we've been bickering and when we had a huge arguement it sprialled into a break up, usually we'd txt argue and make up. Only this time i cut all contact, went out in different places to avoid meeting him when we were out socialising....for both our sakes and was trying to move on. He got back in touch with me and we met up and chatted....he messed with my head, said he couldn't just lose me etc....said he wanted me back. I am a slow thinker, like just like to ponder so i said i'd think it over, but the next day he just took everything back and made it out that i wanted him back. So sonce then, the past week he's been txting me and getting digs in. I have great time for this lad and txt back, i think it annoys him that i don't get angry, but i just don't care anymore.

The thing is today i've decided to cut all contact again, i know this will upset him but i have the right to move on. I do love him alot, but even though we never did anything bad to eachother, a lot has been said and doubt has been cast in my mind about him and his feelings.

I'm moving to college and am so excited, i know i will get over him and all that, but just wanna do this the most civil way possible....

Flojo

Well you seem to be getting on pretty ok. What exactly do you need advice on? How to tell him its over completely? It seems from what your saying it already is. Good luck with college btw