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So after 5 years

  • 22-08-2008 9:51pm
    #1
    Spencer87
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 15 ✭


    Im newly single since march, Ive had one nights stands and kisses in bars etc but id like to get into a proper dating scene, im kinda new to this so i dunno how to go about it,im not looking for a relationship just a few dates to meet new girls, it seems lke everyone i know is either been with someone whos been with someone (etc etc etc)
    id like to meet new people
    im a good lookin guy but im sick of one night stands!

    Any advice??
    Peace x


Comments

  • #2
    j0e
    Closed Accounts Posts: 496 ✭✭j0e


    ring them after u have sex


  • #3
    Spencer87
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 15 ✭Spencer87


    j0e wrote: »
    ring them after u have sex

    Tried it


  • #4
    MagicMarker
    Banned (with Prison Access) Posts: 32,865 ✭✭✭✭MagicMarker


    Don't have sex with them.


  • #5
    MugMugs
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 17,875 ✭✭✭✭MugMugs


    MM beat me to it :(

    Fair point though....

    You dont have to lay every lassie you meet on her back straight out.... Appealing as it is...


  • #6
    Shantih
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 15 ✭Shantih


    just talk to girls and be yourself. you know that you're not unattractive so just get chatting to people (no sleazy chat up lines though) about the music in the bar/work/college etc. most girls don't mind a relatively sober/ genuine seeming nice guy talking to them. the worst that can happen is that you don't get on. and then you can just make your excuse, no harm done!

    there are plenty of great girls out there just looking to have fun that's somewhere between a one night stand and a relationship.


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  • #7
    35notout
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 596 ✭✭✭35notout


    I dont think you will find a serious relationship with the people you bring home from pubs/clubs. Girls looking for a relationship, and someone to love/respect them, will not do the one night stands. One night girls are not ready for relationships, no more than a one night man is - you have proven that yourself.

    Next time you meet someone you click with, dont take them home, take their number instead. Then call them to meet up one on one - they will feel more respected and know you are not just out for a sh*g.


  • #8
    tinkletoes
    Closed Accounts Posts: 105 ✭✭tinkletoes


    35notout wrote: »
    I dont think you will find a serious relationship with the people you bring home from pubs/clubs. Girls looking for a relationship, and someone to love/respect them, will not do the one night stands. One night girls are not ready for relationships, no more than a one night man is - you have proven that yourself.

    Next time you meet someone you click with, dont take them home, take their number instead. Then call them to meet up one on one - they will feel more respected and know you are not just out for a sh*g.

    +1


  • #9
    Fat Pie Lot
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 49 ✭Fat Pie Lot


    35notout wrote: »
    I dont think you will find a serious relationship with the people you bring home from pubs/clubs. Girls looking for a relationship, and someone to love/respect them, will not do the one night stands. One night girls are not ready for relationships, no more than a one night man is - you have proven that yourself.

    Next time you meet someone you click with, dont take them home, take their number instead. Then call them to meet up one on one - they will feel more respected and know you are not just out for a sh*g.

    +1

    Also, what about other avenues? Night classes? You might meet someone that shares a common interest. The gym? Fit girls... literally! ;) There are more ways to meet women/people than just heading down to the pub, though that can work too. There's also online dating or perhaps the more roundabout method of putting a profile on your social networking site of your choice.


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