Sex lines

LegacyUser

Wanted your opinions on this - would you class calling phone sex lines as cheating on yor partner?

Calling the partner for phone sex is not an option as she lives with her mother.....

SpookyDoll

Has she not got a mobile ?

boogle

"She lives with her mother" is the lamest excuse ever. What about a mobile? Just call your phone sex line and stop trying to dress is up and convince yourself that it's not cheating. It's not something a loyal boyfriend does in a serious relationship. If you're not in a serious relationship, then go ahead.

LegacyUser

It's a work mobile which she ain't keen on using as all calls are recorded....

biko

I would never do it, even as single. That's what internet porn is for.
Save up for a weekend away with your girl and have it on then? Or even get a room in town.

Nevyn

Ask her if she considers it cheating.
Buying her a personal non work mobile so you can talk or what every is going to be certainly cheaper then ringing sex lines.

SpookyDoll

Thaedydal wrote: »

Ask her if she considers it cheating.
Buying her a personal non work mobile so you can talk or what every is going to be certainly cheaper then ringing sex lines.

+1

copeyhagen

biko wrote: »

I would never do it, even as single. That's what internet porn is for.
Save up for a weekend away with your girl and have it on then? Or even get a room in town.

have to agree with this, is the reason your using the sex lines to "get off"?

if so, then just use the internet, theres hundreds of free streaming sites out there, and rather than using your imagination to picture them you get what you want, so to speak!

Sugar Drunk

ring her personal mobile I fail to believe theres many people left who do not have one.
or rent a hotel room for you and her - the cost of a cheap hotel or B & B room is less than ringing a sex line for a week!
do I consider it cheating ? - if it were me yes but it depends what she thinks. I do consider it a bit pathetic though

helimachoptor

Unreg01 wrote: »

It's a work mobile which she ain't keen on using as all calls are recorded....

sorry OP unless she's working for the CIA/NSA/FBI/Mi5/MI6/IRA/ al qaeda

I doubt very much her calls are being recorded.

But just get her a personal RTG phone and stop ringing p*rn lines

briantwin

Unreg01 wrote: »

It's a work mobile which she ain't keen on using as all calls are recorded....

That seems highly improbable!!! So she has no private phone for herself, in case her car breaks down or whatever? you could buy her a phone for a weeks worth of sexchat calls.......

RossFixxxed

BUY her a phone!! Much cheaper and not cheating.

sinnerboy

you must answer this one yourself . you feel it may be a betrayal - and therfore - it is . you are sharing your sexuality with strangers when you are committed ( i assume ) exclusively to your gf . Save the €ss for a deposit on a flat and .... an nice double bed

Annie Bananie

Thaedydal wrote: »

Ask her if she considers it cheating.
Buying her a personal non work mobile so you can talk or what every is going to be certainly cheaper then ringing sex lines.

+1

We all have different values of what is cheating and not. ASK HER! Its the only way to know. It does not matter what any of us or anyone else think, she is the only one that can answer that question for you. Also consider how you would feel if she did the same. Would you be ok if she called these sex lines?

sunnyside

It sounds like she doesn't want to do phone sex but doesn't want to tell you that so instead she's making excuses.

Living with her mother would probably mean she couldn't do it at 8pm but if she wanted to she could do it later when alone in bed.

A basic mobile phone would be very cheap to buy. Even the kiddies have them. Not a valid excuse.