Another Women and dating thread

LegacyUser

After reading the “Women and dating” thread it reminded me a bit of my situation. I’ll keep this short and simple. I met a girl awhile ago and we seemed to get on really well. We spent most of that night talking to each other before she had to leave early.

I ended up thinking about her constantly so I got in touch and we arranged to meet up for drinks in town last Saturday. We chatted away all night and there was never an awkward moment between us. As we were leaving one bar and about to go to another we stopped and started kissing. Then she said we should go back to her place.

We went back to her place, opened a bottle of wine, started kissing, one thing lead to another and we ended up in bed. I had this horrible feeling that I was being used for a one night stand and couldn’t get the thought out of my head. In the morning when we woke, we carried on from where we had left off and even though we were both sober I still had the same feeling??

Later that night (Sunday) I rang her and told her how much of a great night I had with her, how I really enjoyed her company and what I would like to do is take her out for a nice meal sometime when she’s free. She said that that would be nice and that she would be in touch but I haven’t heard anything from her at all?

Now I really really like this girl, she’s just a beautiful, wonderful, amazing girl. I feel like I’ve fallen for her already and I don’t fall for someone that easy. We are both in are 30’s.

Have I been a one night stand?
Or
Is it still early days and should I just hang in a bit longer?

SpookyDoll

Hmm, the signs seem to point to a one nighter PuzzledOne.....however I wouldn't see any harm in sending her a light hearted text maybe something like...Hey, how are you.....

See what she comes back with....

If she is chatty then suggest meeting up..

Dont whatever you do mention that you are really keen on her if ye meet up...its too early and you will freak her out.

Miss Fluff

Contact her again and suggest meeting up for drinks/dinner. She may just be having a mare of a week.

LegacyUser

I sent her an email yesterday about something else and I didn't mention anything about meeting up again as she said she would let me know. I do know she is very busy this week and this weekend.

I'll just have to hang tight for the moment and see what happens. Just how long should I wait?

SpookyDoll

Hang tight for the moment, keep in contact until this busy patch is over for her, plan something fun to do for yourself and mention it so that she doesn't think you are hanging around waiting for her!

If she is still not biting next week theres not much more you can do......

She could just be self conscious that she jumped you so early.....its just impossible to tell at the moment though!

LegacyUser

Cheers SpookyDoll and Miss Fluff. I'll post back and let you know how things go

LegacyUser

Woohoo!!!!

Contact has been made!! She just sent me an email. She's just been really busy as I knew she would.

Thank you for your replies.

SpookyDoll

hurray Puzzled !!!

Be cool hunnybunny!!!!

GET IN !!!