Getting IT up!-Again!

LegacyUser

OK,regular poster but thought id go unreg'd for this one.

What do men find is the best way of getting hard again soon after ejaculation when having sex.
Is urination necessary between goes because the last time i found i wasnt as hard and maybe i should have urinated beforehand.
Getting hard isnt really the problem really its just,after ejaculating and going soft/semi soft,i want to get an as hard erection again to continue with the intercourse.

Any info is much appreciated.

Thanks

Adam

GetNitup wrote: »

OK,regular poster but thought id go unreg'd for this one.

What do men find is the best way of getting hard again soon after ejaculation when having sex.
Is urination necessary between goes because the last time i found i wasnt as hard and maybe i should have urinated beforehand.
Getting hard isnt really the problem really its just,after ejaculating and going soft/semi soft,i want to get an as hard erection again to continue with the intercourse.

Any info is much appreciated.

Thanks

Stay inside if that's an option tbh. Otherwise more foreplay. Or just watch her.

But then, different strokes is always the case in sex related issues.

SnowMonkey

you could allways try the mussel thing where ou tence and untence which helps not needing to come so quickly or can help you control that problem hugley....sorry if that's got a slight pun in it....

Go-Go-Gadget

as roflcakes says, its different for different people, but seeing as ur asking for our opinions i have no trouble if im sexually attracted to the girl. try different things, experiment

MagicMarker

Why would you want to do that?



I would say persistence and patience are what's needed.

randylonghorn

It's natural for men to have a "down" period in between, and while it's certainly possible to avoid / minimise downtime, especially if you're fairly young, it's not something to get worried about either.

Sex doesn't have to be all about penetration for anyone, and less so for women than for us, in fact.

Why not take the opportunity to do something else, gentle massage / tonguework, perhaps? She will probably appreciate the attention immensely, and is likely to demonstrate her appreciation. And certainly for me, nothing like having a woman moaning under my touch to bring things back to the vertical in record time, so ... double whammy!!

MagicMarker

randylonghorn wrote: »

It's natural for men to have a "down" period in between, and while it's certainly possible to avoid / minimise downtime, especially if you're fairly young, it's not something to get worried about either.

Sex doesn't have to be all about penetration for anyone, and less so for women than for us, in fact.

Why not take the opportunity to do something else, gentle massage / tonguework, perhaps? She will probably appreciate the attention immensely, and is likely to demonstrate her appreciation. And certainly for me, nothing like having a woman moaning under my touch to bring things back to the vertical in record time, so ... double whammy!!

I find your username highly ironic in this instance:)

I also agree with everything you've said.

LegacyUser

Ok first of all you're not meant to get an erection again just after orgasm. Men have a refractory period where it is impossible to have another orgasm again so soon.

The time differs with age, mid 20s should be ready to go again, 15-30min.Also you'll never have such as big an erection as you did the first time, and each orgasm will have less sensations and pleasure than the ones before them.

Marksie

Blehhhhh wrote: »

Ok first of all you're not meant to get an erection again just after orgasm. Men have a refractory period where it is impossible to have another orgasm again so soon.

The time differs with age, mid 20s should be ready to go again, 15-30min.Also you'll never have such as big an erection as you did the first time, and each orgasm will have less sensations and pleasure than the ones before them.

The above is correct as far as it goes.

Male orgasm and ejaculation can be separated.
Thus its possible for men to become multiorgasmic, achieve whole body and subtle body orgasms and have longer and better ectstaic states.

PC control and semen retention techniques allow you to have longer and better orgasms.

Why OP? for yourself or partner? if for teh partner.... penetration is only a small part of it all. Too much focus on this in the west.

milod

Marksie wrote: »

Male orgasm and ejaculation can be separated.
Thus its possible for men to become multiorgasmic, achieve whole body and subtle body orgasms and have longer and better ectstaic states.

I know all the theory around this Marksie, but have you ever actually managed to do that yourself?

@OP - your penis isn't a malfunctioning machine, it's living tissue. When it's ready for action a second time, it'll let you know... If staying hard for 4 hours is that important to you, ask your GP to prescribe Viagra.

Marksie

milod wrote: »

I know all the theory around this Marksie, but have you ever actually managed to do that yourself? .

Yes. In such matters i am coming from personal experience/practice

milod wrote: »

@OP - your penis isn't a malfunctioning machine, it's living tissue. When it's ready for action a second time, it'll let you know... If staying hard for 4 hours is that important to you, ask your GP to prescribe Viagra.

OP: Do NOT under any circumstances do this.
Viagra is for erectile dysfunction, you do not have this. Your doctor will not prescribe it nor should you take it for purposes other than what it is required for

Milod: Please do not post such advice again

Taken from BBc website:
http://news.bbc.co.uk/2/hi/special_report/1998/viagra/263971.stm

milod

I'll consider my wrist slapped!

I recommended the OP go to a GP - who I would hope would talk some sense into him... I thought this was the standard approach to those seeking 'medical' advice. Viagra is a prescription drug btw.