Embarassing question...

Peggy

I have never experienced an orgasm with a man, and have never really tried it myself

Anyway, I finally bought a rampant rabbit and realise now what I have been missing out on all these years

But...I get to a certain stage that I just cant take anymore and have to stop, but think I still amnt experiencing the full thing. Any ladies got any tips on what to do?:o:o

Wurly

Peggy wrote: »

I have never experienced an orgasm with a man, and have never really tried it myself

Anyway, I finally bought a rampant rabbit and realise now what I have been missing out on all these years

But...I get to a certain stage that I just cant take anymore and have to stop, but think I still amnt experiencing the full thing. Any ladies got any tips on what to do?:o:o

Well, vibrators aren't for everyone. Certainly not for me. I'm way too sensitive. Probably, a silly question but.. have you tried just using your fingers?

MagicMarker

Yeah, it might just be too much for you.

Also, how you can expect a guy to give you an orgasm if you can't do it yourself?

Put the rabbit back in it's cage for a while and explore for yourself.

Toots

I agree with Tri and MagicMarker, try exploring yourself with fingers first, then move on to the vibrator, if you like. Try running a nice bath, light some candles and just spend some time getting to know what feels good for you. It might take you longer than it did with the vibrator, but a more gradual build up might stop you from hitting your 'wall' so soon.

Magpie!

If you are inserting the vibrator and using it to stimulate your G-spot then it can just be too much sometimes.

If that's the case maybe just concentrate on clitoral stimulation for a while.

trio

Some vibrators are just too strong, and may burn the ****e out of you. You may want to try clitoral stimulation whilst still wearing underwear. It'll still do the trick, but will tone the vibrator down enough for you to be able to enjoy it more.

LadyE

Turn it down a notch , dont have it on full power.

Nevyn

I suggest that you get yourself down to your local Boots chemist and go have a look in the family planning isle for the following product.

Vielle Stimulator

Vielle is a new type of clitoral stimulator, clinically proven to make orgasm easier to reach and more satisfying.

# Discreet clitoral stimulator, no need for batteries.

http://www.boots.com/images/product/1035558/ehero.jpg

This what the box looks like and

http://www.boots.com/shop/product_enlarge.jsp?productid=1035558&classificationid=1050039&slmRefer=&imageid=2

Is what the product looks like, it's a finger sleve which raised bumps which are desgined to stimulate in a certain way. It was desgined by a woman for women.

Oh and it's part of thier 3 for 2 offer atm.

05D

I totally agree maybe play around with yourself for a while maybe with some visual stimulation.

Then when it comes to being with a man you are able to work with him to get to your boiling point.

The rabbit can keep for a while!!

LegacyUser

Yeah you need to figure out yourself and what you like or it's gonna be damn hard for a guy to please you. You've got to be in the right frame of mind. It doesn't matter how much stimulation you give yourself you are very unlikely to have an orgasm if you aren't feeling horny!

Marksie

Peggy wrote: »

I have never experienced an orgasm with a man, and have never really tried it myself

Anyway, I finally bought a rampant rabbit and realise now what I have been missing out on all these years

But...I get to a certain stage that I just cant take anymore and have to stop, but think I still amnt experiencing the full thing. Any ladies got any tips on what to do?:o:o

One follows the other. How can you expect to communicate what you need to have orgasms to men, if you don't know your own sexual response.

Forget the vibrator for a while. Use your hands. Have a nice bath and just begin to explore every inch of yourself. Take time to find out what works and what doesn't work for you.
Don't be aiming to orgasm right away, but get comfortable with all the feelings and sensations.
A vibrator can over stimulate if your not careful and it could also be that you are straining too much to go that extra bit.

So relax back and enjoy the sensations not the goal.
Work up your arousal state to the use of the vibrator.If you get sensitive agin, then stop and go back to exploring with fingers.

In that way you will gradually build up your ability to experience sensations and increase your ecstatic potential and plateau.

Just work up to it learning as you go, and saty relaxed and out of your head...allow yourself to fantatsise if it helps to do this....

EDIT: Peggy i looked at the title of the thread "Embarrasing Question". You will not be the first to have (pardon the pun) come late to this, and you wont be the last. So you shouldn't feel embarrassed.
Though you may want to ask yourself why you chose that title, may be a bit of a revelation

Kaldorn

i just got a semi reading that

Nevyn

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