so I dunno

LegacyUser

Im unreged for this.

Hey peeps.
hope your all feeling good.

I meet a girl recently, went for a few drink's.
it went so much better then what i had hoped or even planned.
but this is'nt abou that well sorta is.

any way i meet this girl for a few drinks got home cheacked the old email's, and on the day i meet a girl 3 girls who i've all had feelings for had emailed me this was in the past. which kinda freeks me out some sort of insignifcant sighn. but not shore.

any wya for a long time i struggeled with women, i was less then able to talk to them, and even create interest or attraction, now a days i am at the time i will admit I didnt know who i am to day im a lot more at ease with who i am people can take me or leave me its there choice. But the first time ive meet a girl who i can say i feel comfortable shes beautifull funny smart easy to talk to confident same mentality i could say more. but its not about her....

this is the first time ive ever felt like things are going good for me and it just feels weird...
I can do things now that i would never imgined me having the confidance I have and im scarred I loose it, and become a mess. its not that i dont feel right my prevous experence's have told me different but right now even tho im in this heavy with drawn state, I feel as tho everything is ok and its perfectly ok for me to be thinking the way i am right now?

Im not worried im not feeling anxous i dont need to be in contact with people, I dunno if this make's sence, but i feel like im exactly where im supposed to be in life.... I've felt this way before but never to the extent i have done today so many good things are happening around me and i dont know how to deal with it.

maybe i just sound like a rambeling loon who to some ive just had such **** times that today is one of the highist times ive felt


weird juts needed to vent maybe some people can understand who know's

Kaylie

I have no idea what any of that means...

Karen_*

So if everything is going great for you and you're feeling brilliant then what's the issue?

dr.bollocko

I think the issue is it feels too good to be true and he is scared of losing the elated feeling, or losing his self-confidence and newfound social skills.
Like every other aspect of life, these things ebb and flow good buddy. Sometimes you're up, and sometimes you're down, but jaysus, when you are up, don't be worrying about the next crash. Just live your life!
And good luck with the girl.
Either the girl, or the girl three girls ago. Had a bit of trouble understanding some of it.

Karen_*

Ah ok! OP you've got the right to be happy and it doesn't mean impending doom. Just go with the flow and enjoy;)

Nevyn

So you finally feel that life is good and things are going your way for the first time in your life and having figured this out you are worried that things will change and it will all slip away again and this comes when you are looking at maybe dating someone and you are worried adding that into your life will screw things up.

First off change is eventible.
Are you going to have times moving foward in your life that will quiet frankly suck donkey balls ? Most likely.

Are you going to have times that feel as good as what and where you are now ?
Well that depends on you and how you manage yourself and your life, not only now but when tougher times hit.

So say that you are withdrawn and thinking about what has happened in the past and what comes next; this is not a bad thing, chances are you haven't done this before either but as long as you don't spend to so time that you start to undermine yourself
and use it to plan what you want to make happen next in your life then you should be ok.

Funny how so many people wish and want for things to be different in thier lives but when thier dreams ( it seems ) come true they are not ready for it or able for it, they panic and then crash and burn.

So you are in a good space/place in your life and don't want to rock the boat, thats understandable, but what is it exactly that has you wigging out at dating someone ?

SpookyDoll

Happy Happy Joy Joy !!!

Enjoy it OP and dont fret -you have found your Mojo -stay cool and you wont let it go!!!

YOURE ON FIRE !!! lol

LegacyUser

Thaedydal wrote: »

So you finally feel that life is good and things are going your way for the first time in your life and having figured this out you are worried that things will change and it will all slip away again and this comes when you are looking at maybe dating someone and you are worried adding that into your life will screw things up.

First off change is eventible.
Are you going to have times moving foward in your life that will quiet frankly suck donkey balls ? Most likely.

Are you going to have times that feel as good as what and where you are now ?
Well that depends on you and how you manage yourself and your life, not only now but when tougher times hit.

So say that you are withdrawn and thinking about what has happened in the past and what comes next; this is not a bad thing, chances are you haven't done this before either but as long as you don't spend to so time that you start to undermine yourself
and use it to plan what you want to make happen next in your life then you should be ok.

Funny how so many people wish and want for things to be different in thier lives but when thier dreams ( it seems ) come true they are not ready for it or able for it, they panic and then crash and burn.

So you are in a good space/place in your life and don't want to rock the boat, thats understandable, but what is it exactly that has you wigging out at dating someone ?

thanks that makes lots of sence in a nutshell i just am a bit freaked out i guess that things are going well which is odd so i figured out over the past few days thta maybe i should except them and just cruise so ta speak and i guess i was just thinkin a bit to much....

if thinsg go bad i can deal with them but i guess this is what its all about......

i want nothing to do with the women i knew in the past in a romantic way loose aquantance's is what i would say i beleave im a new person so my past is only experence my past no longer means anything to me and will continue yes ive had some good times and some truly **** one's but its time to put them a side and beleave and accept that good times are coming and i deserve them ...?