BF Pervy.....?

LegacyUser

Im confused, I dont know if I am silly to be letting this annoy me, I am not sure if I am being ridiculous or if my BF is being a bit insensitive or pervy.....
Last nite me and BF watching Charlotte Church show, him stretched out on the couch me with his feet on my lap, anyway Charlotte is there chatting away -I looked over and noticed my BF was on a semi -so I laughed and held it in my hand and said "is that for Charlotte then" and he went "yeh, phwooarr" and burst into a big speech perving about Charlotte as if I was one of his lad mates....
I felt sort of as if I was in the way, if I had had somewhere else to go I would have left him to it, I felt a bit embarassed ...as if he was about to wack one out and I was in the way.
I am fairly open minded I think, and I understand he of course will get turned on by other women etc but I felt in the least he could have I suppose covered it up better. Was it bad taste to be almost wacking himself off in front of me...he was well in heat the dirty little git.
The other half of me was sort of impressed as Charl is preggers and I thought fair play to him.
Anyway, I acted like I didnt have a problem, but I must have -he was slobbering all over me for the rest of the night and I knew he wanted some action when we went to bed, but I just couldnt get into it, I felt really turned off -like he was a little bit too open (he made it so obvious) I did my best to hide it but I felt miserable.
but then again, I did ask...
When he was having sex with me I just pretended to be into it, I knew he was probably thinking/wishing I was her, so I just felt like any old piece of meat would have done him to get up on.....
Another thing is every morning he cannot wait to get me out of the house so he can wack one out, we have a good love life so I am not denying him sex or anything, I turn a blind eye, but its got to the point that when I leave the bedroom I dont like going back in (forgotton mobile or work pass has to get left there) in case I interrupt him at it.
Also sometimes when I enter a room if he is scratching himself or something he gets all defensive when I havent even mentioned anything, like Im not the feckin masturbation police and I resent this being brought to my attention all the time.
I kind of feel a bit in the way in my own house or something if that makes sense!?
Anyway, I want to be cool with stuff and not appear a mad/jealous GF but sometimes he doesnt seem to know where to draw the line.........
I need opinions please....Ive become confused.

Irishcrx

It's not really pervy, it's unrealistic to think that men don't ever think about other women and masturbation is natural,I wouldn't get so worked up about it.

donnaille

Have him stop masturbating, it is a sin after all......

Trinity

Pervy, no i wouldnt think so. Insensitive perhaps if he doesnt stop to think how you feel about him man handling himself over a woman in front of you, (in the wrong context i think) and maybe a little bit highly strung in the sex department.

Would you have been offended if you had been watching a porn and whacked one out as it were? Thats almost the point of them really, just a surprising reaction to charlotte church hosting a talk show.

You really cant tell anyone how often to ****, or if its normal or not. If you feel left out, ask him does he want a hand, pardon the pun. Get involved or leave him to it.

Macha

At the same time, its a bit much for him to launch into a discussion about how/why he finds another woman attractive. I certainly wouldn't have much time for my boyfriend if he did this.

I think you need to tell him what you expect from him & what your limits are. Each to their own. His last girlfriend may have been perfectly happy to conversations about this but that doesn't mean you have to.

Miss Fluff

Trinity1 wrote: »

You really cant tell anyone how often to ****, or if its normal or not. If you feel left out, ask him does he want a hand, pardon the pun. Get involved or leave him to it.

+1

beth-lou

It could be worse, he could be badgering you for sex every morning. All men get "morning glories". They can't help it. It the way they're made. Let him **** away to his hearts content.

As far as the Charlotte Church thing goes, it's no big deal. They just physically announce their appreciation. Thankfully we don't suffer the same when we perv at someone on the tv.

donnaille

Do the same thing to him when you see Bill O' Herlihy on TV and see how he likes it

milod

I saw a lovely doughnut in the window of Mannings bakery on the way home yesterday, but when I got in, herself had bought an apple tart. It was lovely, and I seriously chowed down on that apple tart without ever thinking of the doughnut... :pac:

You're seriously over-analyzing this situation. But if you're not comfortable with him being so open - then tell him. Fact is, he was in bed with you not an unattainable celeb.

hunnybunny

I have to say I think are over reacting slightly. However if this had been in public that he was slobbering over some girl yeah Id be mad. But its just TV same way you or I would look at some fit actor and think he was hot (I gotta thing for Noel Clarke out of Adulthood) My BF thinks its hilarious as I always fancy the type of people I would never go out with in a million years.
Its harmless fun.

However Charlotte Church???? Why???? Thats odd. Maybe he has a fetish for big pregnant women. That is the disturbing part:o. I d be just thinking I am far slimmer, taller and better looking. What does he want her for? :DReally there is much more celebrity competition out there than Charlotte Church:)
I wouldn t worry about it!!

As for the masturbation whats the big deal there? Everyone does it !!!Why are you bothered that he does? So what if you see him doing it, hes your BF, Im sure you d both have seen everything by now.

togster

get over it ffs

seandugg

beth-lou wrote: »

It could be worse, he could be badgering you for sex every morning. All men get "morning glories". They can't help it. It the way they're made. Let him **** away to his hearts content.

As far as the Charlotte Church thing goes, it's no big deal. They just physically announce their appreciation. Thankfully we don't suffer the same when we perv at someone on the tv.

How do you badger someone for sex? Dress up in a black and white costume and lure them into a false sense of security with your cuddlyness brefore breaking their ankles with the power of your jaw?

trio

No, there's nothing particularly pervy here. The only thing he's maybe not so good at is reading you.

I presume that when he was going on about Charlotte Church that you were sitting there kinda struck dumb - he obviously didn't cop on and shut up. Some lads would have, and thought to themselves "Note to self: NOT ON!...ok...fair enough...." but not all, in fairness.

seandugg

hunnybunny wrote: »

I have to say I think are over reacting slightly. However if this had been in public that he was slobbering over some girl yeah Id be mad. But its just TV same way you or I would look at some fit actor and think he was hot (I gotta thing for Noel Clarke out of Adulthood) My BF thinks its hilarious as I always fancy the type of people I would never go out with in a million years.
Its harmless fun.

However Charlotte Church???? Why???? Thats odd. Maybe he has a fetish for big pregnant women. That is the disturbing part:o. I d be just thinking I am far slimmer, taller and better looking. What does he want her for? :DReally there is much more celebrity competition out there than Charlotte Church:)
I wouldn t worry about it!!

As for the masturbation whats the big deal there? Everyone does it !!!Why are you bothered that he does? So what if you see him doing it, hes your BF, Im sure you d both have seen everything by now.

Whats wrong with Charlotte???? Id badger her!!!

Miss Fluff

hunnybunny wrote: »

However Charlotte Church???? Why???? Thats odd. Maybe he has a fetish for big pregnant women. That is the disturbing part:o. I d be just thinking I am far slimmer, taller and better looking. What does he want her for? :DReally there is much more celebrity competition out there than Charlotte Church:)
I wouldn t worry about it!!

Agreed, she's a dumpy foul-mouthed chav so you've no worries there love.

coco06

I am fairly sure it was not Charoltte that was doing that to him.. it was hardly Jimmy Carr by any chance was it??

seandugg

Miss Fluff wrote: »

Agreed, she's a dumpy foul-mouthed chav so you've no worries there love.

chav? she's a opera singer....

HPT

HeadMelted wrote: »

but I felt in the least he could have I suppose covered it up better.

I think you need to remember that the semi was totally out of his control.

In the words of Billy Connolly "It has a mind of it's own, but no brain".

I don't see how he could have covered it or disguised it without drawing further attention to it while he was lying there with you beside him.

Regardless of who the woman is, it wasn't one of his smartest ideas to launch into any kind of spiel about how hot she is or how he's attracted to her. Whenever that happens, some women will unfortunately always feel like they are being compared. It's probably best to save that kind of talk for when he's with the lads.

HeadMelted wrote: »

I knew he was probably thinking/wishing I was her

You're doing yourself and your relationship no favours by jumping to conclusions like that.

bottletops

HeadMelted wrote: »

Charlotte Church

wtf??? :eek:

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Miss Fluff

seandugg wrote: »

chav? she's a opera singer....

Your point being.....?

http://img.dailymail.co.uk/i/pix/2008/02_03/CharlotteChurchBIG_468x515.jpg

beth-lou

seandugg wrote: »

How do you badger someone for sex? Dress up in a black and white costume and lure them into a false sense of security with your cuddlyness brefore breaking their ankles with the power of your jaw?

You do that too?

Charlotte Church has a beautiful face. I can understand the attraction.

LegacyUser

Thanks for all the replies, I got a good giggle at them which is just what I need...

Good point Milod, about seeing the donut but enjoying the tart....er...apple tart ! lol
I know what you mean...

hunnybunny and Coco -it was deffo Charlotte alright! Although he does find Jimmy Carr funny!! oooh er but thats a whole different thread....

Hunnybunny, I dont have any problem with him masturbating, just not in front of me and also this thing in the morning where he wakes me up to get me out of the room so he can get on with it, well I do just that, I do let him on with it, often we have had sex the night before... and I have to get going so I cant stay around to give him the helping hand.....also I get the feeling he needs to see to himself as its a lifelong habit and he prefers to do it himself in the mornings on weekdays, so I just feel a bit of a spare in my own house, also its irritating to be made to feel "in the way" in my own house.
As I say Ive had to leave things behind before that I needed as I dont like going back into the bedroom as he makes it clear he wants me out of the way.

Which makes me feel rightly unspecial. I guess I would just like him to be a bit more descreet or private about it, its just a lot and often and he doesnt seem to let me forget it.

Like I said, its not nice to walk into a room and he jumps out of his skin, I do feel he is putting this tag or persona on me...the masturbation police, which really hurts as Ive done my best to give him as much privacy as I can, that makes me sad as really all I am looking for is that its not shoved into my face so much.

Trio....your point about his cop on is right on the money, he lacks a little bit I think...I am just not too sure about how to go about dealing with this situation.

I worked hard for my house and now I feel I am treading on eggshells walking into rooms, I started knocking recently or walking loudly when coming twords the room but he told me not to be silly, right after that I came in after a shower and he was at it! lol I cant win.

I laugh at it myself and really do my best to turn a blind eye but its not working.

donnaille

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Fully agree can we please try help the OP, she doesn't need to know your opinions of Charlotte Church!!

Nevyn

HeadMelted wrote: »

Hunnybunny, I dont have any problem with him masturbating, just not in front of me and also this thing in the morning where he wakes me up to get me out of the room so he can get on with it, well I do just that, I do let him on with it, often we have had sex the night before... and I have to get going so I cant stay around to give him the helping hand.....also I get the feeling he needs to see to himself as its a lifelong habit and he prefers to do it himself in the mornings on weekdays, so I just feel a bit of a spare in my own house, also its irritating to be made to feel "in the way" in my own house.
As I say Ive had to leave things behind before that I needed as I dont like going back into the bedroom as he makes it clear he wants me out of the way.

Which makes me feel rightly unspecial. I guess I would just like him to be a bit more descreet or private about it, its just a lot and often and he doesnt seem to let me forget it.

Like I said, its not nice to walk into a room and he jumps out of his skin, I do feel he is putting this tag or persona on me...the masturbation police, which really hurts as Ive done my best to give him as much privacy as I can, that makes me sad as really all I am looking for is that its not shoved into my face so much.

Trio....your point about his cop on is right on the money, he lacks a little bit I think...I am just not too sure about how to go about dealing with this situation.

I worked hard for my house and now I feel I am treading on eggshells walking into rooms, I started knocking recently or walking loudly when coming twords the room but he told me not to be silly, right after that I came in after a shower and he was at it! lol I cant win.

I laugh at it myself and really do my best to turn a blind eye but its not working.

You need to talk to him about the fact his self love is making you feel uncomfortable your own home.
If he wants to have a **** in private then he should go else where and not expect you to leave the room.
We all have to learn to change our habits and routines when we start living with someone.

beth-lou

Ok well it does sound a little excessive. Talk to him about it. Tell him exactly what you've said here. Best of luck.

LegacyUser

Thanks Thaedydal and Beth-Lou, I will let the dust settle a bit and hopefully bring it up casually then..........

I just dont want him to misunderstand me and think I am the fecking w@nking gestapo!!!

lol Hopefully he will tone it down a bit.......Will let you know how I get on!

LegacyUser

hi,
male response here....

I think as others said it's fairly common that most of us lads pleasure ourselves probably more regularly than our partner thinks. I know I do anyway.
Is it the fact that it was Charlotte Church that turned him on, or the fact that it was another woman? If that's the case, then I hate to tell you that if you've any cute girl friends/sister/mom/aunt/work colleague etc, then chances are they'll have featured in his thoughts at some stage when he's fantasizing with his lad in his hand.

maybe slightly off topic, but only yesterday evening a female colleague at work unwittingly showed rather a bit too much leg when she was getting into her car and I saw she was wearing stockings. Guess what I did when I got home???

Macha

dlace wrote: »

hi,
male response here....

I think as others said it's fairly common that most of us lads pleasure ourselves probably more regularly than our partner thinks. I know I do anyway.
Is it the fact that it was Charlotte Church that turned him on, or the fact that it was another woman? If that's the case, then I hate to tell you that if you've any cute girl friends/sister/mom/aunt/work colleague etc, then chances are they'll have featured in his thoughts at some stage when he's fantasizing with his lad in his hand.

maybe slightly off topic, but only yesterday evening a female colleague at work unwittingly showed rather a bit too much leg when she was getting into her car and I saw she was wearing stockings. Guess what I did when I got home???

I think the OP has made it pretty clear that her problem isn't with him masturbating, but his behaviour surrounding it. And again, the fact that he's male doesn't have a whole lot to do with it. If it were a girl doing it to a guy, it would be just as thoughtless.

LegacyUser

"I hate to tell you that if you've any cute girl friends/sister/mom/aunt/work colleague etc, then chances are they'll have featured in his thoughts at some stage when he's fantasizing with his lad in his hand. "

Have you actually READ any of my posts?

I've already covered this, I dont have a problem with him masturbating, I am a worldly girl buddy -I am WELL AWARE that all men do it and that anything at all can trigger it. With my fella the wind blowing in the wrong direction has him on a horn.

And you dont "hate to tell me"....you love to tell me, so much so you are preaching to the converted but no, you still have come on showing off, to post your totally irrelevant point.

What in Gods name do you think women **** to for Gods sake, the exact same stuff, the only difference is we have the sensitivity and descretion and consideration for our other halves feelings to shut up about it.

Obviously our descretion works as the idea that women do exactly the same thing does not seem to have occurred to you.

As for him liking Charlotte, I was impressed as I think Ive already mentioned, but hey Im done repeating myself.

sigh

LegacyUser

oops sorry OP, looks like I did get the wrong end of the stick.

ok, so the crux of your issue is the discretion (or lack thereof) and not the actual act of choking the chicking while thinking about somebody else.

well, if it helps, no, I don't tell my partner who the various random occupants are of my fantasies during those private moments. Maybe your fellah should've kept shtum and not explain the source of his semi.

but, it is after all Charlotte Church and she is rather yummy!!

citeal

oh dear, you need to have a chat with your boyfriend OP, he's being a little inconsiderate, you should NOT feel uncomfortable in your own home. As another poster said, its more to do with getting used to living together. My ex used to walk into the bathroom when I was sitting on the loo, I hated it, he couldn't understand why. Try & keep it lighthearted & explain he needs to tone it down, you're not going to be rushed out of your own home every morning & you certainly shouldn't be worrying about going back into the room.

As for the telling yourself he was imagining he was with Charlotte, I seriously doubt it, he probably thought he was being funny when he was carrying on about her earlier & would be horrified to think he'd caused you to feel bad about yourself.

Annie Bananie

HeadMelted wrote: »

I dont have any problem with him masturbating, just not in front of me and also this thing in the morning where he wakes me up to get me out of the room so he can get on with it, well I do just that, I do let him on with it, often we have had sex the night before... and I have to get going so I cant stay around to give him the helping hand.....also I get the feeling he needs to see to himself as its a lifelong habit and he prefers to do it himself in the mornings on weekdays, so I just feel a bit of a spare in my own house, also its irritating to be made to feel "in the way" in my own house.
As I say Ive had to leave things behind before that I needed as I dont like going back into the bedroom as he makes it clear he wants me out of the way.

You shouldn't feel uncomfortable in your own home. I think you should talk to him. If he wants to have a **** fine, but he cant push or stress you out of the room. Can you just ask him to wait until you are out of the house, if you leave before him in the morning? Or when you are in the shower or something? I think you should just simply tell him what you told us here: that you have no problem with him masturbating, but that you dont want to watch and don't want to feel like you're in the way. Just talk to him and you can probably find a solution that suits you both

LegacyUser

Thanks citeal and Annie Bananie.....

Im definitely going to broach the subject now, as long as he understands its just a consideration thing and not that I am trying to stop him bashing the bishop ! lol

I will let ye know how I get on and thanks so much for the advice to all....

herya

HeadUnMelted wrote: »

Thanks citeal and Annie Bananie.....

Im definitely going to broach the subject now, as long as he understands its just a consideration thing and not that I am trying to stop him bashing the bishop ! lol

I will let ye know how I get on and thanks so much for the advice to all....

I think you most definitely should, it's not about sexuality or perving here, it's about simple manners!

Ditto for Charlotte issue, grand that he likes her but to launch into a spiel in front of you & ready for action is simply rude. Not pervy though IMO, just human.

Phlann

Citeal's post is on the money.

I know it's off-topic but I have to say, the OP's posts are pretty damn funny. If it doesn't work out with him I'll give you a good home. '**** gestapo' :pac:

Talliesin

HeadMelted wrote: »

Last nite me and BF watching Charlotte Church show, him stretched out on the couch me with his feet on my lap, anyway Charlotte is there chatting away -I looked over and noticed my BF was on a semi -so I laughed and held it in my hand and said "is that for Charlotte then" and he went "yeh, phwooarr" and burst into a big speech perving about Charlotte as if I was one of his lad mates....

How often would "his lad mates" hold his penis in their hands before asking him what he thinks about an attractive young woman?

Unless there is violence involved, holding ones lover's penis in ones hands is normally taken to indicate a degree of sexual openness. Doing so an initiating a conversation on a topic suggests you are open to that conversation having quite a bit of detail.

HeadMelted wrote: »

I felt in the least he could have I suppose covered it up better.

Depends on his posture and what he was wearing.

HeadMelted wrote: »

Was it bad taste to be almost wacking himself off in front of me.

From your description, you were closer to wacking him off than he was.

HeadMelted wrote: »

The other half of me was sort of impressed as Charl is preggers and I thought fair play to him.

Last time I saw her was on a magazine cover (she's pretty and all, but I've no interest in her show) she was only a few months pregnant at that time, but it was definitely working for her.

HeadMelted wrote: »

Anyway, I acted like I didnt have a problem, but I must have -he was slobbering all over me for the rest of the night and I knew he wanted some action when we went to bed, but I just couldnt get into it, I felt really turned off -like he was a little bit too open (he made it so obvious) I did my best to hide it but I felt miserable.

You react to a minor sexual response from him by moving it into physical sexual interaction, and then hide that you are not in the mood. So the only explicit signals he got from you were suggesting that you would wanted things to become physically intimate and none saying otherwise.

Maybe next time you aren't in the mood you should try indicating that to him, especially if you've just done something sexual with him.

HeadMelted wrote: »

When he was having sex with me I just pretended to be into it,

As above.

HeadMelted wrote: »

I knew he was probably thinking/wishing I was her,

Why? What do you have to suggest that even he finds her more that slightly sexy (from your behaviour and his behaviour there's more evidence to suggest you've a thing for her than there is to suggest he does).

HeadMelted wrote: »

so I just felt like any old piece of meat would have done him to get up on.....

And you were having sex with him why?

HeadMelted wrote: »

Another thing is every morning he cannot wait to get me out of the house so he can wack one out, we have a good love life so I am not denying him sex or anything, I turn a blind eye, but its got to the point that when I leave the bedroom I dont like going back in (forgotton mobile or work pass has to get left there) in case I interrupt him at it.

This has nothing to do with sex. He has an erection, but isn't feeling anything beyond that physical sensation, so he wants to relieve that. Therefore he's going to have a quick **** rather than sex (now that would be treating you "like any old piece of meat", not a good idea unless its part of a wider sex-slave thing going on which I very much doubt from your post).

HeadMelted wrote: »

Also sometimes when I enter a room if he is scratching himself or something he gets all defensive when I havent even mentioned anything,

Well, "scratching himself" probably isn't his best look.

HeadMelted wrote: »

like Im not the feckin masturbation police and I resent this being brought to my attention all the time.

Sounds more like he's trying to not bring it to your attention but very bad at it.

HeadMelted wrote: »

Anyway, I want to be cool with stuff and not appear a mad/jealous GF but sometimes he doesnt seem to know where to draw the line.........

What line?

Sounds like he just sucks at tact.

Which of course isn't the easiest thing to bring up tactfully itself. You could try the blatant approach; next time you walk into the bedroom and he's at it just suggest he use the bathroom.

JDLK

Dress up like Charlotte, put on a welsh accent and ride the arse off him, then get him to do the same for you as some celeb you fancy

Problem solved

dresden8

hunnybunny wrote: »

However Charlotte Church???? Why???? Thats odd. Maybe he has a fetish for big pregnant women. That is the disturbing part:o. I d be just thinking I am far slimmer, taller and better looking. What does he want her for? :DReally there is much more celebrity competition out there than Charlotte Church:)
I wouldn t worry about it!!

WTF? Charlotte is seriously hot. Even when she's up the duff.

the_syco

seandugg wrote: »

How do you badger someone for sex? Dress up in a black and white costume and lure them into a false sense of security with your cuddlyness brefore breaking their ankles with the power of your jaw?

Well, actually, if you kept asking, it'd be considered badgering someone.

=-=

OP: tell him to wack one off in the loo. That, or join the fun.

challengemaster

donnaille wrote: »

Have him stop masturbating, it is a sin after all......

lul wut:pac:

Supercell

HeadMelted wrote: »

I dont have a problem with him masturbating, I am a worldly girl buddy -I am WELL AWARE that all men do it and that anything at all can trigger it. With my fella the wind blowing in the wrong direction has him on a horn.

Apart from my overwhelming desire to add that to my sig (might not go down well in the weather forum though), i think you just need to chill a little.

Man horn and pr0n... Its nature, the lovely Charlotte is bound to make any red blooded male a bit stimulated.
Its fantasy stimulation, doesn't mean he loves you any less.

TBH straddle him and enjoy is the best recommendation I can give.

christo82

Call your local Priest to come over and have a word with him. That always works...except you may find the two of them **** over Charlotte together.

wasper

HeadMelted wrote: »

Im confused, I dont know if I am silly to be letting this annoy me, I am not sure if I am being ridiculous or if my BF is being a bit insensitive or pervy.....
Last nite me and BF watching Charlotte Church show, him stretched out on the couch me with his feet on my lap, anyway Charlotte is there chatting away -I looked over and noticed my BF was on a semi -so I laughed and held it in my hand and said "is that for Charlotte then" and he went "yeh, phwooarr" and burst into a big speech perving about Charlotte as if I was one of his lad mates....
I felt sort of as if I was in the way, if I had had somewhere else to go I would have left him to it, I felt a bit embarassed ...as if he was about to wack one out and I was in the way.
I am fairly open minded I think, and I understand he of course will get turned on by other women etc but I felt in the least he could have I suppose covered it up better. Was it bad taste to be almost wacking himself off in front of me...he was well in heat the dirty little git.
The other half of me was sort of impressed as Charl is preggers and I thought fair play to him.
Anyway, I acted like I didnt have a problem, but I must have -he was slobbering all over me for the rest of the night and I knew he wanted some action when we went to bed, but I just couldnt get into it, I felt really turned off -like he was a little bit too open (he made it so obvious) I did my best to hide it but I felt miserable.
but then again, I did ask...
When he was having sex with me I just pretended to be into it, I knew he was probably thinking/wishing I was her, so I just felt like any old piece of meat would have done him to get up on.....
Another thing is every morning he cannot wait to get me out of the house so he can wack one out, we have a good love life so I am not denying him sex or anything, I turn a blind eye, but its got to the point that when I leave the bedroom I dont like going back in (forgotton mobile or work pass has to get left there) in case I interrupt him at it.
Also sometimes when I enter a room if he is scratching himself or something he gets all defensive when I havent even mentioned anything, like Im not the feckin masturbation police and I resent this being brought to my attention all the time.
I kind of feel a bit in the way in my own house or something if that makes sense!?
Anyway, I want to be cool with stuff and not appear a mad/jealous GF but sometimes he doesnt seem to know where to draw the line.........
I need opinions please....Ive become confused.

Come on woman get a grip. Girls don't dream about other lads while doing it with their BFs. For god sake you are creating a problem out of nothing.

Dave!

Ye were both watching Charlotte Church, he involuntarily had a semi, and then YOU grabbed his penis and YOU brought up the topic, and then were surprised and upset when he talked about it!

No he's not pervy, he's perfectly normal.

Latchy

He was being a little insensitive .If it were just you two alone in bedroom ,sitting room,kitchen it would be fine .

The tv is the 3rd party and it has to go

Hitchhiker's Guide to...

it is a bit strange to have a boner just from watching charlotte church [never thought i'd write this sentence!]. mehh just let it be, the main purpose of TV babes is to do this very thing. Would you think this same way if he was watching Pamela Anderson on Baywatch?

the other point is that he could have just had a random boner unrelated to the program he was watching ala morning wood (except at night).

Nevyn

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