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Sick of feeling like this

  • 07-08-2008 8:29pm
    #1
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭


    Its been over a year since I last saw her, and since she broke up with me. At first I was devastated, but since then I’ve been trying very hard to forget about her and move on. My life should be fine, I should be happy. I worked harder then I ever have in college to get good enough marks to do a masters in the college I want. I’m doing a graduate job that I love. I have good friends and we have good times. I’ve been with other girls. My family are great. My life should be fine and I should be happy.

    But I feel so low. I don’t feel like I can keep doing this. I keep telling myself I’ll feel better in a week or a month and I keep myself as busy as I can. I have my job and when I’m not working, I read, exercise or I hang out with my friends. I keep telling myself, keep busy, keep making goals to achieve, keep working and eventually things are going to get better. You'll get what you want if you work hard, and it'll make you happy.

    But it doesn’t and I don’t understand why. I still think about her all the time. I hate it. I hate hoping that a ringing phone or a new email might be her. I hate dreaming about her. I hate seeing or hearing something and think, she’d like that. I hate not being able to sleep because I'm thinking about her. I hate being with other girls and thinking about her. I hate when I think of her and feel happy. I hate feeling like I'm still in love with her.

    I don’t know what to do anymore. I feel like I'm lying to myself. I feel like I want to run away. I don't want to keep going on like this. I want it to change, but I don't know what to do anymore. I've tried everything I could think of, and it isn't working. I need some help :(


Comments

  • #2
    Kevster
    Closed Accounts Posts: 2,980 ✭✭✭Kevster


    Hi,

    Do you actually miss her?; or do you just miss the feeling of being in love and having someone there? You need to refocus - beginning now - what exactly your priorities in life are. We don't have time to do everything we want in life, so, we must arrange our time around our priorities. Right now, your #1 priority seems to be finding love, but try to see that love can be found in many places, and not just your ex. I'm sure that she has moved-on, and so should you. That is what people do; it is what makes us stronger.

    Take care,
    Kevin


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