Arghhhhhhhhhhh why (help)

SnowMonkey

Hey folks.



this is funny but stupid and well intirely... My fault...

Snowmonkey meets girl not in th eusueal way but meets a girl, girl is prety girl has a wicked sence of humer, girl is mature and also hold good conversation...
Snowmonkey ask's girl for number and girl give's snowmonkey number... ...

Now here where snowmonkey makes his tragic mistake, snowmonkey says oh He'l phone her, but snowmonkey has never talked to girl before , and feel anxous and nervous ....

Snowmonkey has tried meditating, to calm him but the fact of the matter is his hearts in his mouth and ready to run away, ive phoned lots of girls, before but on a scale of 1 to 10 ive never once been this nervous about ringing a girl in my hole intire life....

Ive tried ecepting im nervous and that makes me more nervous i have untill about 10 o clock tonight ot ring here and i must do it....


I need a pep talk justa push all i gotta do is pic up the phone and press a few bottins and ring but I even feel anxous about this... its so stupid...

please help

Gary ITR

LOL... Just go and call her man... You won't be sorry by the sounds of it.

GrumPy

Onkle wrote: »

LOL... Just go and call her man... You won't be sorry by the sounds of it.

+1

bored and tired

have you tried the "something about mary" trick??, otherwise, dont ring but start sending some flirty texts. thats what my guy did and we are now engaged:)

and as for pep talk, ring her or text her, or i will find away of sending you a virtual kick up the ass.:D

good luck

Latchy

I think we all have being there at one stage .Just be yourself and dont sound anxious .You dont want to end up saying to yourself later '' oh, i wish i had said this ,and i wish i hadent said that, but in all probability that's what might or could happen LOL .

Enjoy the conversation and good luck

SnowMonkey

bored and tired wrote: »

have you tried the "something about mary" trick??, otherwise, dont ring but start sending some flirty texts. thats what my guy did and we are now engaged:)

and as for pep talk, ring her or text her, or i will find away of sending you a virtual kick up the ass.:D

good luck

whats the something about mary trick?

but yeah i dont really wanna text as that pretty gutless, and i really should ring she a mature girl and at least i show some amount of confidance.. where as not ringing her would just show how i meet her that i am abit unconfident whoich im not im just really nervous over pusjhing a bottin and comunicating to some one i feel like arghhhh nervous...

dr.bollocko

Don't over think it!
MAN UP!
What would Chuck Norris do?

ZygOte

TIP No 1. For the love of god man stop referring to yourself in the third person!

bored and tired

SnowMonkey wrote: »

whats the something about mary trick?

please tell me youve watched the film "theres something about Mary"??

SnowMonkey

ZygOte wrote: »

TIP No 1. For the love of god man stop referring to yourself in the third person!

and my tip for you is develop a sence of humer ..........

chuck noris would put on his cowboy boots and man up...

something about mary was at time in my life where months/years where a blur....

dr.bollocko

SnowMonkey wrote: »

chuck noris would put on his cowboy boots and man up...

Well then put on those goddamned cowboy boots and make like chuck!

bored and tired

right comedy think american pie

Basically the guy is anxious about a date with mary, he is tongue tied, stomach is in nots, besotted with mary, a bit like you by the sounds of it

so his friend suggests that he relieve any sexual urges that he may have so that he is thinking with his head on the friend level, and not on the bf gf level of wanting to get her into bed yesterday level!

LegacyUser

If you got it yesterday then don't call her today. Might make you seem a bit desperate. Wait till tomorrow at lunch or evening and see if she fancy's lunch/a drink or whatever on wednesday or at the weekend or whatever. You don't have to be uber witty or anything over the phone and the call can just be short and sweet.

If she likes you then she'l be like "yeah that sounds cool" and you can be like "Cool, I'll see you wednesday/thursday" blah blah whenever you set the date for. You can text all you want after that, just try not to seem desperate. Can't stress this enough.

And good luck man

SnowMonkey

bored and tired wrote: »

right comedy think american pie

Basically the guy is anxious about a date with mary, he is tongue tied, stomach is in nots, besotted with mary, a bit like you by the sounds of it

so his friend suggests that he relieve any sexual urges that he may have so that he is thinking with his head on the friend level, and not on the bf gf level of wanting to get her into bed yesterday level!

But but my mummy allways told me id go blind :eek:....

Your right tho i must do this so i think i gonna get pumped (not like that ) then ring her... I might do a few mints on the dun bells cller my mind or something... ...

Im going to do this ....

SnowMonkey

goodstuff101 wrote: »

If you got it yesterday then don't call her today. Might make you seem a bit desperate. Wait till tomorrow at lunch or evening and see if she fancy's lunch/a drink or whatever on wednesday or at the weekend or whatever. You don't have to be uber witty or anything over the phone and the call can just be short and sweet.

If she likes you then she'l be like "yeah that sounds cool" and you can be like "Cool, I'll see you wednesday/thursday" blah blah whenever you set the date for. You can text all you want after that, just try not to seem desperate. Can't stress this enough.

And good luck man

dude i got the number on friday but was busy nurseing a really bad jager hangover ... Oh itle be short .... Im going ot do this?

LadyE

Just do it - have in your mind what your gonna say so theres no awkward moments!

Good luck!

SnowMonkey

ok dudes she cant talk in work so eh so where texting even worse?

LadyE

Its putting the phonecall off!

Do you know that she is def in work now? Can you not call her when it suits her rather than texting?

bored and tired

no not worse, she didnt blow you off, and she is probably cursing the fact shes working, play it cool, bit flirty and see if she takes the bite:)

LadyE

Ah sorry, I misunderstood.

Yeah then text her be flirty (becafe you dont come across as sleazy!) as bored and tired said!

Jack B. Badd

SnowMonkey wrote: »

but snowmonkey has never talked to girl before

You've never talked to a girl or this girl? O_o