dreaming of another lad

LegacyUser

hey i've been having this problem recently. and well its been going on for ages
bascially im with my boyfriend over two years now. we've a rocky relatonship.
since college i've been dreaming about this other lad.
it happens every other night.
and the worst bit in its not always sexual more romantic and i wake up feeling a bit sad that its not real and obviously guilty that its happening too.
the first three or four times werent so bad but now its really getting to me.
i cant get him out of my head.
i thought since the holidays it would pass and i'd forget about him but honestly this isnt the case

so basically
can anyone shed a bit of light on to what is wrong with me

Fanny Cradock

You aren't happy in your current relationship and are fixating on a fantasy. Or something like that.

pisslips

I think more informnation is required really.

Do you actually like the other lad?
How rocky is the relationship?
How much contact do you have with each lad?


Lad is a strange word.......anyway...

Tragedy

He's an escape for you, an idealised romantic man who would treat you and make you feel like you want to be - when you're not feeling or getting those things in your current relationship.

It isnt real, but I'd say it's a good indication that you should consider breaking up and trying singledom for a while.

tinkletoes

Tragedy wrote: »

He's an escape for you, an idealised romantic man who would treat you and make you feel like you want to be - when you're not feeling or getting those things in your current relationship.

It isnt real, but I'd say it's a good indication that you should consider breaking up and trying singledom for a while.

totally agree with the above statement

trowelled

Tragedy wrote: »

He's an escape for you, an idealised romantic man who would treat you and make you feel like you want to be - when you're not feeling or getting those things in your current relationship.

It isnt real, but I'd say it's a good indication that you should consider breaking up and trying singledom for a while.

I agree with this too. You need to assess your current relationship. If it's not working for you then maybe you should walk away from it but do not do anything with this other guy as it is more than likely just a fantasy, a form of escapism if you will from your current relationship!!

Mr Benevolent

Dreams during sleep can't be interpreted. Ignore the dreams, that kind of crap's only for psychotherapists (and I should know, I used to be one).

Talliesin

Your imagination conjured images of romantic scenarios.

If your imagination couldn't do this, you would be incapable of romance.

Not a bad thing.

Swampy

Time to get out. head for single town.

pisslips

Clearly, your subconcious is warning you of impending danger and you must bite the head off a pheasant at the next full moon at the foot of the bed.

I had a dream that I was an assasin, obviously this is my true profession!

I had a dream that my parents died, that was scarey.

C.D.

pisslips wrote: »

Clearly, your subconcious is warning you of impending danger and you must bite the head off a pheasant at the next full moon at the foot of the bed.

I had a dream that I was an assasin, obviously this is my true profession!

I had a dream that my parents died, that was scarey.

Off topic, but I burst out laughing after reading this..