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  • 02-08-2008 12:39pm
    #1
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭


    Hi,

    Seeing a great girl - things going well.
    In the bedroom - lots of foreplay which is really good - I really enjoy it, she really enjoys it.
    However, when it comes to actually having sex, the man down below isn't really "keeping up" his side of the bargain, if you know what I mean.
    Often we're good to go - then by the time we get the condom sorted - he's gone back to sleep!

    Anyway, bit of background.
    I was a bit of a late bloomer in these things, probably wasn't brought up with the healthiest attitude to sex and women - and I had definetely built sex up way too much when it actually happened (that was a good few years ago now)

    That said, any shyness or insecurity I had is gone now - I'm very popular with the ladies, no hangups about my body or sex or anything like that.
    I just want to enjoy it fully and safely.
    I think everything is okay physically - he's usually well alert in the morning!
    No problem with communication - I don't really have any problems talking about it with herself - I do not get embarassed very easily and I'm not going into the macho "I'm not going to talk about it " mode.
    The only thing I can think of is that I still have some subconscious issues - or maybe just bad habits - I'm not too sure.
    I really want to enjoy sex as fully as possible - foreplay all the other stuff is great.

    Does anyone have any advice? Maybe recommend any counsellors or has anyone tried hypnosis?
    I really want to get this sorted and start enjoying my sex life as fully as possible.

    Thanks


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  • #2
    Adam
    Closed Accounts Posts: 8,866 ✭✭✭Adam


    then by the time we get the condom sorted

    What does this mean exactly? I mean, is it hidden away somewhere that you both have to stop for a while? You should have it out and ready to go. After that, maybe try having her put it on?


  • #3
    Marksie
    Closed Accounts Posts: 6,395 ✭✭✭Marksie


    what amount of time is it taking you to put it on?

    ONeway is perhaps as mirror sys to let her put it on,.
    You really have to be hard first.
    maybe if she holds the base of your penis and rolls it down that would help. Perhaps try the woman on top position

    Another would be not to let it get in your head..are you focussed on using it or focussed on the pleasure?

    You may want to try pc exercises and you can pump those muscles while putting the condom on to maintan the erection


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