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should i do it?

  • 19-07-2008 3:08am
    #1
    whatif
    Closed Accounts Posts: 2 ✭


    Can i ask a question maybe somebody can help me . Im happly married with kids and very happy but at times I keep thinking about the past #
    .the one that got away ? used to be once a month now its nearly everyday can you really miss somebody that much ?> should i phone them ask how are things is that wrong to do?

    if i don`t i`ll never know ....

    i really do miss them BUT do they think about me ?

    am i mad ....


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  • #2
    LolaLuv
    Closed Accounts Posts: 2,496 ✭✭✭LolaLuv


    What are your expectations? Do you sincerely just want to find out how the person is, or are you hoping it will lead to something? Be honest with yourself. Then decide if it's possibly worth losing your family over. (That's assuming a lot, but you have to realize what that could lead to.)


  • #3
    Black Swan
    Moderators, Category Moderators, Science, Health & Environment Moderators, Society & Culture Moderators Posts: 47,656 CMod ✭✭✭✭Black Swan


    The-Rigger has the answer to your question, "the one that got away!" Where is he when you need him? AWOL! Now, how about a picture of a huge fish, symbolizing the one that got away? Nesters? Anyone want to help this otherwise happily married whomever? Think FISH!*


    *Things are always fishy on TCN!


  • #4
    whatif
    Closed Accounts Posts: 2 ✭whatif


    i just want to understand what went wrong and what they are feeling towards me now ?
    i`d like to chat see how they have grown over that past five six seven years and also understand why the choose the path they did ?

    i think it`s beacuase there are so many questions not answered theres a huge void i wouldn`t change anything or a minuite since then my life now has everything except answers to questions i have .

    i`m not sure it was my fault at the time i was told it wasn`t their was an age gap but i didn`t mind ... a death in the family did drive us apart ? but that should of made us stronger ..

    i`d just like five mins but i could do all this for them to turn their back on me .... maybe it`s just me maybe they don`t want to talk to me ...

    what would i do if i got in contact and they said go away ....:confused:


  • #5
    Jesus Wept
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 25,243 ✭✭✭✭Jesus Wept


    Blue_Lagoon wrote: »
    The-Rigger has the answer to your question, "the one that got away!" Where is he when you need him? AWOL!!

    bynny.jpg


  • #6
    Matt Holck
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 9,706 ✭✭✭Matt Holck


    whatif wrote: »
    age gap didn`t mind ...
    a death in the family did drive us apart ?
    but that should of made us stronger ..
    A death in the family doesn't strengthen the unit
    whatif wrote: »
    what would i do if i got in contact and they said go away ?
    go away


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  • #7
    Jesus Wept
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 25,243 ✭✭✭✭Jesus Wept


    whatif wrote:
    what would i do if i got in contact and they said go away ?
    Matt Holck wrote: »
    go away

    ROFL!

    Brilliant. :D:D:D:D:D

    5 big grins for you my friend!


  • #8
    taidghbaby
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,746 ✭✭✭taidghbaby


    the question is not whether or not should you do it, but rather why are you on the internet looking for morale support to commit adultery and potentially destroy your marraige, off of strangers (actually scratch that last bit, thats a PI answer and this is the cuckoo's nest :o)

    cuckoo nest answer:

    yeah man you should totally do it.......go hit them b1tsches up.....get yourself some of that good hoochy-momma loving......fcuk the consequences!!!


  • #9
    LolaLuv
    Closed Accounts Posts: 2,496 ✭✭✭LolaLuv


    I apologize; I am a n00b and did not understand the culture of the Cuckoo's Nest. In all honesty, it sounds as though you're bored in your marriage, or you wouldn't be having obsessive thoughts about former flames in the first place. Why not spice things up by planning a romantic evening date with your SO? The best thing would be to make him believe it's going to be something rather lame and ordinary, then take him to a swingers' club and insist he watch you have sex with another man, and vice versa. I don't see anything but positive results in your future if you follow my advice.


  • #10
    Ghost Train
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 30,566 ✭✭✭✭Ghost Train


    whatif wrote: »
    am i mad ....

    aren't we all


  • #11
    SunnyP
    Closed Accounts Posts: 110 ✭✭SunnyP


    The past belongs in the past - leave it and get on with your life


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  • #12
    Ghost Train
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 30,566 ✭✭✭✭Ghost Train


    SunnyP wrote: »
    The past belongs in the past - leave it and get on with your life

    people from the microwave & time machine forum wouldn't like to hear you saying that


  • #13
    Hermy
    Moderators, Society & Culture Moderators Posts: 11,522 Mod ✭✭✭✭Hermy


    eolhc wrote: »
    people from the microwave & time machine forum wouldn't like to hear you saying that

    +1:P

    Genealogy Forum Mod



  • #14
    Black Swan
    Moderators, Category Moderators, Science, Health & Environment Moderators, Society & Culture Moderators Posts: 47,656 CMod ✭✭✭✭Black Swan


    Typical The-Rigger! I ask for a FISH and he gives me a jack rabbit with a flap jack on its nose. Geeeeeeeeeez! It's so hard to get good help these days in the Nest!

    Now you Nesters must admit that it's truly rare to get a PI question on TCN, so we should make the most of it!


  • #15
    randylonghorn
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 29,509 ✭✭✭✭randylonghorn


    Blue_Lagoon wrote: »
    Typical The-Rigger! I ask for a FISH and he gives me a jack rabbit with a flap jack on its nose.
    You should know by now he's a bit of a cod; still, I guess the plaice wouldn't be the same without him ...


  • #16
    KnifeWRENCH
    Closed Accounts Posts: 11,148 ✭✭✭✭KnifeWRENCH


    funny-pictures-therapy-cat.jpg


  • #17
    Matt Holck
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 9,706 ✭✭✭Matt Holck


    taidghbaby wrote: »
    the question is not whether or not should you do it, but rather why are you on the internet looking for morale support to commit adultery and potentially destroy your marraige, off of strangers (actually scratch that last bit, thats a PI answer and this is the cuckoo's nest :o)

    cuckoo nest answer:

    yeah man you should totally do it.......go hit them b1tsches up.....get yourself some of that good hoochy-momma loving......fcuk the consequences!!!


    au contrare
    ze cockoos nest would suggest you but a dress


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