How long did you wait?

LegacyUser

How many dates or how long do you wait before having sex with someone you like?

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Twenty minutes.

LegacyUser

First night! I thought it would be just a one night stand, besides I was gaggin for it!!

helimachoptor

unreggg wrote: »

How many dates or how long do you wait before having sex with someone you like?

It depends, are you a boy or a girl as usually they waiting time expectations can be at opposite ends of the scale!

Some girls its been the first night. My current one was about 2 months or so.

Wibbs

It boils down to whatever you're comfortable with. As a bloke I've waited for a good while with some women because I wasn't confortable with the notion, others the second time I met them. I didn't consider either situation better or worse tbh. Now some guys will just hang around until they get the leg over and then bolt. Funny enough I would say better to know that early on before you get too attached.

LouOB

a month

Zombrex

unreggg wrote: »

How many dates or how long do you wait before having sex with someone you like?

dates? someone I like? ... I don't understand the question :pac:

Seriously though, are you asking just to know, or because you are trying to figure out how long you should wait (or trying to find out how long it is acceptable to wait before you start getting annoyed that your partner still wants to wait). Because at the end of the day it is a personal decision.

Aurora Borealis

Depends completely. Mostly if sober enough to think about it properly I'd tend to hold off if it was someone I really liked but no (ahem) hard and fast rule....

LegacyUser

I wanted to know what the average or usual time people wait because when i first met my boyfriend we kissed loads the first night we met & i got a bit scared thinking about our second date because he asked me to come to his house for a dvd & stay over if i liked... i arranged to meet him & gave him "the talk" as he affectionately calls it now... basically told him i wasnt an easy girl & he said he didnt mean he wanted sex just that his friends always are welcome to stay over. But the third date (so 3 weeks) we went out to town then back to his place & were together for the first time.. i always try & make him think it was a month i made him wait thou... just a joke we have together!

Quazzie

54 minutes

chickenhawk

This will sound so stupid but........whenever feels right.

Beruthiel

4 hours.

Do what you want, when you want.
What other people do should not infulence you in any way.

drunkmonkey

4 vodka and red bulls and a bacardi and coke....

Dudess

Do it when you want to do it. If that's the second you meet this person, then so be it. If you don't feel like doing it at all after a considerable period of time (say, two months) then maybe have a think about whether you should be with this person.

And don't let your gender affect your decision. Having sex with someone not long after you meet them does not make you "easy".

A girl who's "easy" is one who's on the speed dial of guys who don't give a sh1t about her but will give her a call at 3am when they've got the horn and need a last resort solution.

Edit: And she's so lacking in confidence she's willing to oblige even when it's obvious those guys don't give a **** about her...

Marksie

Whats the PI here?

rainbow kirby

chickenhawk wrote: »

This will sound so stupid but........whenever feels right.

Agreeing with this - sometimes it can be a very short period of time, sometimes it can be much longer.

Jack B. Badd

Minus six.

McGinty

I've met the love of my life, so in my case, one week or the third date, and only because on the second we were too busy doing serious snogging.

stevelknievel

Dudess wrote: »

A girl who's "easy" is one who's on the speed dial of guys who don't give a sh1t about her but will give her a call at 3am when they've got the horn and need a last resort solution.

Well said Dudess. Personally I would say 2 or 3 dates. Last grilfriend I had (very shortlived) was about 6 weeks and met her a lot, spent nights together a few times but never had sex. Unfortunately.

Casshern88

around 8 months of going out, first serious relationship for both parties. i think thats a record so far for this sexually liberated thread.

sunnyside

I think it's much easier for both parties to have sex fairly soon, that way it's part of the relationship right from the start. Waiting for ages causes nerves and unrealistic expectations for everything to be really special and puts loads of pressure on both sides.

MagicMarker

whenever the time is right, rather sooner than later though:)

cHaTbOx

Marksie wrote: »

Whats the PI here?

That's what I was thinking.Sounds like AH tbh

As Dudess said if it is.Nobody should dictate what you do .

Beruthiel

Marksie wrote: »

Whats the PI here?

Considering they didn't come back to state one.
Closed.
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