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Bedroom... issues

  • 16-07-2008 6:43pm
    #1
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭


    I know this is probably a fairly silly worry compared to some of the issues on here but just wondering what your opinions are!!

    I've been in a relationship for the last few months with an absolutely amazing guy that i was friends with for years previously. We get on so well and everything seems to be going fantastically apart from one small thing...

    When it comes to the bedroom, things are great. I've always been very open to experimentation and what have you but since I've gotten together with the boy, I find myself too terrified to go near him a lot of the time. I mean, we have plenty of sex and I've no qualms about that at all but when it comes to me satisfying him I literally can't do it, I just freeze up and get what feels like a horrible case of stage fright!

    I find him incredibly attractive and we both have really high sex drives so I can't for the life of me understand what the problem is!! Any thoughts/suggestions? It's really starting to bother me :(


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 13,779 ✭✭✭✭fits


    I think you might have to be more specific. I dont really understand what the problem is. What do you mean by 'satisfying him'?


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 21,191 ✭✭✭✭Latchy


    OP you say that When it comes to the bedroom, things are great and i assume you mean great for you and You say you like to experiment but Perhaps you are having sex for the sake of sex and you want to give and recieve more

    Do you respect him to much to try something different ? .Perhaps you are more friends than lovers and your worried about his reaction to your advances .

    Talk to him about it :)


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,403 ✭✭✭passive


    Are you talking about giving/not giving head?


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