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A little sensitive..

  • 15-07-2008 2:43pm
    #1
    LegacyUser
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    Hi all - going unreg for this as it is a little sensitive. Basically my boyfriend and I have been together for 4 years and in that time we have had a good love life. We probably make love 3 or 4 times a week which is pretty good going after 4 years comapred to some of my friends. Neither of us are inhibited about trying new things so I was not surprised recently when he asked me if I would like to try anal sex. Now as I said Im not inhibited about things but I am a little uneasy about the whole bum thing. Not only does it sound like it might hurt but I just think there may be other things like odour, leaks etc - a friend of mine said she tried it and some poo leaked out onto the bed. It all just sounds so messy. So I need a few opinions of people who have tried it. I dont think it will affect our relationship if I make up my mind its not for me but I would like to hear others experiences


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  • #2
    LegacyUser
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    I think if you are uneasy talk it through.But if you wouldnt mind giving it a go the overall experience is good.Plenty of lube and you decide the depth and if it hurts at all and you dont like it stop.Its never happened to me the poo but id have some diarreh[cant spell that word]the next day and bum would be quite sore but while doing it it is good


  • #3
    zzantara
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    I was also dubious at first but one night we both had the extra drink and decided to go for it,we dont do A**L every time but like everything a bit naughty it does give a little thrill ?-We both find it quite enjoyable,there is the issue of hygene so we wash extra well in that area before and then use a condom,the one piece of advice I would offer is that you use LOTS and Lots and Lots of Lube and that your boyfriend "plays " for a while to increase the opening so that it's ready to receive without discomfort.
    It's not for everyone and I know lots of people will be on condeming it-to them I would say it's not compulsory and if they dont want to try it then noone is forcing it on them !
    If you want to try it go ahead-we did -and enjoy it occasionally -but remember the important Lube !


  • #4
    LegacyUser
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    Eat really lightly and healthily for a few days before hand, foods without fat make less poo and less smelly poo.

    Also, eating well makes less mucus in the body so it will be lovely and clean back there!

    I've never had any of that leaky business, but I think with a bit of sensible forethought you dont have to worry about that.

    Keep wipes nearby, do it in the dark with a few drinks onboard, get him to play with you at the front, you would not believe the difference that makes, it makes you relax and its much easier to take then!

    Its not as sore as loads of people make out, more a weird feeling like you are well, what you normally do with your bum-holio!

    Mind over matter girl ! Enjoy!


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