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have i been in love with her

  • 11-07-2008 5:57pm
    #1
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭


    Ok this is a long one but ill try make this short

    Ive known a girl for the past 8 years and we have been friends since we met,but ive always thought of her as the nicest most attractive girl ive ever met .anytime ive been in a relationship ive avoided her and i never talked to her,cause im terriffied of having feelings for her(i thought i loved her when i was younger),

    i saw her when i was living in dublin 2 years ago and i had been in a relation ship for a year and a half at that time and i freaked when i saw her i had to run and not talk to her cause i was terrified of having feelings for her.and now im single and i want to tell her how ive felt for the past 8 years but what do i tell her!!!! i cant tell her i love her cause im not sure if i do!!


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  • #2
    MIN2511
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 5,398 ✭✭✭MIN2511


    Date her?
    don't tell her u love her


  • #3
    taidghbaby
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,746 ✭✭✭taidghbaby


    i would probably slow things down and ask her out first.....then see where things go!!


  • #4
    SnowMonkey
    Closed Accounts Posts: 286 ✭✭SnowMonkey


    Dont tell her what ever yo do.....

    If you tell her ule mess things up, fact its happened to me twice.

    whta i would say is spend time with her doing stuff togetaher The idea being FUN, dont tell her how you feel just go out doing things that you can be incontact phisicly etc that allways helps.. ive found..


  • #5
    Redpunto
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,024 ✭✭✭Redpunto


    I think you may scare her off by declaring your maybe undying love to her :D meet up for drinks with friends and go from there, you wont know till you get to know her better


  • #6
    TEDDYBEAR90
    Closed Accounts Posts: 55 ✭✭TEDDYBEAR90


    well there's nothing standing in your way now if you are single. but have you recently come out of your relationship? are you ready to get into a new relationship? do you get the impression that she might have feelings for you too? she might be confused by your behaviour if you have run away from her in the past. she might think that you dont fancy her.
    You could start by meeting up with her and see how you get on. Let her know you are interested- no need to declare your undying love just yet though as it is early days!:).8 years is a long time to have feelings for someone. I think its time to go for it. if you dont try you will never know.


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  • #7
    kittensoft1984
    Closed Accounts Posts: 1,124 ✭✭✭kittensoft1984


    Like other people said, date her...

    invite her out for drinks with some friends or to the cinema if you nervous about talking to her...

    let things naturally progress....its the best way

    using a cliche....if its meant to be it will be


  • #8
    fuzzywiggle
    Closed Accounts Posts: 1,089 ✭✭✭fuzzywiggle


    Yeah I'm goin to agree with everyone on this. Don't just blurt out your feelings...especially when you don't even know what your feelings are.
    Take it slowly!


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