Really confused

Friendlyfred

Hi,

Recently I rang a girl I've liked for quite a while to see would she be interested in going out sometime.

She said yes she would, but quickly explained afterwards that the next couple weeks were extremely busy for her because she has exams, then a job with unperdictable hours, followed by a holiday straight after that.

So I m thinking she said this becuase we probably wouldnt be able to organise a specific date.

So a couple have weeks have passed and am considering ringing again... want to know what others think.. is she dragging me along? Or should I atleast try and ring the second time, if I get the really busy excuse should I leave the ball in her court and then drop it?

Wurly

Friendlyfred wrote: »

Hi,

Recently I rang a girl I've liked for quite a while to see would she be interested in going out sometime.

She said yes she would, but quickly explained afterwards that the next couple weeks were extremely busy for her because she has exams, then a job with unperdictable hours, followed by a holiday straight after that.

So I m thinking she said this becuase we probably wouldnt be able to organise a specific date.

So a couple have weeks have passed and am considering ringing again... want to know what others think.. is she dragging me along? Or should I atleast try and ring the second time, if I get the really busy excuse should I leave the ball in her court and then drop it?

If she really liked you, you would be in her thoughts. She wouldn't have forgotten about you and IMO, she would have gotten in contact if she were pushed.

It doesn't look good to me OP. Sorry.

I'd leave it but I know you really like her. So the tendency is to contact her again. Do this if you want but be prepared for an answer that you don't like.

drunkmonkey

Sounds like she's happy being single and she's got a full schedule, I wouldn't take it personally, some monkeys just don't want to settle down just yet....