How to win fair maidens heart? Ladies Help...

LegacyUser

Need some help here, met a lovley lady over the weekend, got on great, one thing led to another and we went further than we should have on a first encounter......a lot of booze envolved......

I went away the next day without gettting here number......thing is I know if I ask the right people I can get her number.......would that make me a stalker? I don't know if she likes me....we had a good time and had a good few things in common....

Will she think i'm a jerk for not meeting up the next day, i was a little shy and hungover and just said hello.....some of her family were there so I didn't want to go up and make an ass of myself by sticking my foot in my mouth....

Is it ok to call, text or email.....or should I treat it as a one night stand and forget about it?

I really don't want to.....we had to much in common.....it was like when sid met nancy!!

She also knows how to find me but i don't think that would be lady thing to do...


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Wurly

No, it wouldn't make you a stalker.

If you like the girl, go for it.

No one can predict how she will react so how about finding out for yourself?

Get the number. Give her a call and see what happens.

She might be freaked about going further than she should have. She might think you got your bit and she won't hear from you again. I'd say she might feel a bit relieved and possibly very happy to hear from you.

You'll wreck your own head not knowing so do it!

And good luck. I hope it works out.;)

girl2

If you like this girl, get in contact surely. Life's too short, you may as well make a go of it if you can.

And no harm done either if shes not interested.

Just see what happens.....but get her number!

wb

I'm not a girl, but I just want to say Jaysus man, you'll be dead long enough. Go for it, a text or email would be an easy option if you don't want to meet face to face.

Sinfonia

whatshouldIdo wrote: »

I went away the next day without gettting here number......thing is I know if I ask the right people I can get her number.......would that make me a stalker? I don't know if she likes me

You: "Hey, I got you number from <name>, I was wondering if you'd like to meet up?"

Scenario 1
Her: "No."

Diagnosis: **** it, you haven't lost anything, you're exactly where you are right now, and at least now you know.

Scenario 2
Her: "Yes!"

Diagnosis: Huzzah!

MJOR

I am a girl and I say go for it!

MissThing

Don't text (that's for kids) call her, have an event in mind as in coffee/lunch on Saturday "I wonder if you want to meet up sometime...?" is too vague.

"Are you free for lunch on Saturday?" is more of a lock down if she's not free but interested she'll say oh no 'Saturday I'm doing X but would Sunday suit?'

Good Luck
MT

RedXIV

Do it, do it, do it, do it!

As stated above, you have NOTHING to lose

SarahSassy

You have nothing to lose .. Let us know how you get on Good luck.