teenage problem or what ?

Ginja Ninja

i met his girl only in passing im not sure if we even spoke
but now she found me on b**o and looking at her profile
she looks like my perfect ,atch and i cant stop thinking about her
i know for a fact that she is single but i dont know her personally maybe its just a crush but im not really sure what to do ?
do i go for friend or just say my piece. but i can easily avoid her but just as easily get her number and take things further (mutual friend ) and distance isn't much of a problem any advice? not exactly sure what im asking but any reply is welcome;)

Princess Consuela Bananahammock

Ginja Ninja wrote: »

i met his girl only in passing im not sure if we even spoke
but now she found me on b**o and looking at her profile
she looks like my perfect ,atch and i cant stop thinking about her
i know for a fact that she is single but i dont know her personally maybe its just a crush but im not really sure what to do ?
do i go for friend or just say my piece. but i can easily avoid her but just as easily get her number and take things further (mutual friend ) and distance isn't much of a problem any advice? not exactly sure what im asking but any reply is welcome;)

I'd say go direct. It'll make you look better in her eyes. More confident and sincere. Talk to her, mail her, whatever it is people do on Bebo and try and gauge her personality from there. If you have a mutual friend, ask them (in confidnece) what she's like.

It may well be just a crush, it may develop. Who knows? It's worth finding out and, if it does come to nothing, at least you tried.

best of luck!

Cmol

Ask her out.... how are you supposed to know if you dont?!?!

RedXIV

Be confident, the best thing you can do here is ask her directly, you're showing you know what you want, your not afraid to pursue it and you're interested. If worst comes to worst and she ignores ya or slags ya, just ignore her afterwards

445279.ie

Go for it!!

He who hesitates is lost

Pen1987

^^^ hes a teenager. What age are you man? are you 14/15 or you old enough to go to pubs etc yet?

Women and teenage women are two different things. 21+ and she'd impressed by a bloke asking her out direct, most younger ones would just be freaked out because its not normal thign at that age..

Looby_Loo

Go for it!
Ask her out.

geminilady

yeah just give her a quick message, asking how she is, wait for her reply than ask does she wanta meet for a coffee i dunno something like that, but ask her out in the inbox good luck! dont worry its a good sign if she found u on bebo too, just do it ! : )

Ginja Ninja

to anwer you r question we're both 16 but like is takin a girl to a pub really a good gesture?

RedXIV

All of a sudden Pen1987's post makes alot more sense...

geminilady

i dunno would ya's even get into a pub? (no offence or anything but i used to get stopped getting in) what about the cinema and a nice chat afterwards?

what are you thinkin of doing yourself?

Pen1987

Send her a message on Bebo and ask her did she enjoy the other night. Did she leave you any chat when she found you on bebo?

If she replies to the message then talk to her for a few messages, tell her youre busy and have to log off that youve got to go somewhere or something but the journey will probably be real boring so she should give you a text and uz can chat more, leave her your number and log off. If she texts you, shes interested, if not, youve not made a fool of yourself.

Ginja Ninja

TBH i just kinda threw it out there but im not the most confident straight off the mark

so i was going to ask around about her get her number and basically get to know her

RedXIV

^^^ oh he's good :cool:

Edit: i meant Pen1987

Pen1987

if you 'ask around' about her she may think your a bit odd if she hears your always talking about her behind her back, even if its good comments.

Better off just sending her a bebo comment (not nescessarily even a private mail) get chatting to her then, like I said, tell her youre logging off but want to continue the chat so she should text you (send the last message in a private mail though). If shes texts you youre in, if not, where the harm? Has anything happened, no, you havent even 'officially' told her youre into her. There IS no possibility of harm here... no chance of being embarassed no chance of making a fool of yourself, its an unfailable situation. Do it. Or you'l regret it... believe me you will!


edit: Sound Red... good to hear from ye! haha

MJOR

just ask her out for God sake!