nervous about size........

LegacyUser

Hi! I am a guy who's been seeing this girl for a cpl of weeks now. We really like each other and I think that sex could be just around the corner. She is my first real girl friend. Thing is, I dont have many sexual experience, just 2 drunken one night stands ( dont remember much of them ).

I am pretty nervous as I am not big down 'there', just 5 inchesx4 inches around.Does it really matter? Any hints and tips ?

Bottle_of_Smoke

4 inches around? like 4 inches wide? if thats the case i think overadeqauteness is going to be an issue!

King of Kings

inadequate? wrote: »

Hi! I am a guy who's been seeing this girl for a cpl of weeks now. We really like each other and I think that sex could be just around the corner. She is my first real girl friend. Thing is, I dont have many sexual experience, just 2 drunken one night stands ( dont remember much of them ).

I am pretty nervous as I am not big down 'there', just 5 inchesx4 inches around.Does it really matter? Any hints and tips ?

if it's really 4 inches around - brag, brag and further brag
women say that itr's girth not length that matters so in your case there should be a queue around the corner

seriously - don't worry do loadsa forwplay, giving her oral and if you get that right she won;t be bothered by whatever size you are.
the size issue is in your head tbh

TPD

4 inches around isn't 4 inches wide, eg. a regular pencil is around 2cm around.

King of Kings

TPD wrote: »

4 inches around isn't 4 inches wide, eg. a regular pencil is around 2cm around.

whatever i was being smart anyway cos i've no idea how or why he measured it

cowzerp

Bottle_of_Smoke wrote: »

4 inches around? like 4 inches wide? if thats the case i think overadeqauteness is going to be an issue!

Yeah 4 inches girth for your lenght would be pretty standard, not big or small, your pretty average down there but as they say, its not the size but how you use it, not talking about me!

dont worry abut it, she wont.

Nevyn

http://sexuality.about.com/od/anatomyresponse/a/average_penis.htm

The results from three studies of penis size where the measurements were taken in a laboratory setting give the following ranges:

* Average penis length (flaccid/not erect): from 3.4 inches to 3.7 inches (8.6 cm to 9.3 cm)
* Average penis length (erect): from 5.1 inches to 5.7 inches (12.9 cm to 14.5 cm)
* Average penis girth (circumference when erect): from 3.5 inches to 3.9 inches (8.8 cm to 10 cm)

These numbers are obviously very different from the sizes we hear (and see) in adult movies, and even the kinds of numbers you read on line.

You are not 'big' infact you have roughly the penis size that most men on the planet have. Yes genitals can come in a range of sizes but yours is the most common.
Not to big, not to small and hopefully for your partner just right.

Again it's not what you got it's the way that you use it and that applies not just to your penis but to the rest of your body, sex is not just about penetration of the vagina with the penis. So take your, time have fun, and play safe.

Bottle_of_Smoke

ah right, thought he meant diameter when he said 4 inches

Thaedydal are thoses measurements for caucasian men or a world average?

Wurly

Trust me OP, most women (well myself and women I know) dont give a crap about the size of your dangly.

For me, width is more important. But I certainly wouldn't shriek in horror if it wasn't wide either.

Basically, its the person attached to the dangly that matters and what he does with it that matters.

Tri
xx

littlefriend

You sound fine tbh but really, size does matter - I know ppl say its what you do with it and all that but really when it comes down to it - its better not to be small

fuzzywiggle

haha! I thought you were four inches wide.. i thought f*ck! Honestly don't worry about it anyway, remember it's not the size of the army, it's the force of the attack

Wurly

littlefriend wrote: »

You sound fine tbh but really, size does matter - I know ppl say its what you do with it and all that but really when it comes down to it - its better not to be small

Yeah but at the end of the day, if the person is amazing, does it really matter about the size of their 'sausage'??

Some blokes have big cocks alright but are even bigger cocks in personality.

I personally know what i'd prefer...:rolleyes:

davyjose

King of Kings wrote: »

whatever i was being smart anyway cos i've no idea how or why he measured it

Hmmm, yeah .... what could the reason for that be .... if only there was a clue in the title. Eh, because he's worried about it. :rolleyes:

OP as Thydaedal pointed out, you're fine. Ok, you're not massive, but you're within reason. You'll be fine.

jells bells

OP: to echo above comments, your size is fine. Vary it up--oral, different positions--take your time and give her loads of attention (whole body...not just down there). She should reciprocate and you'll both have a great time. Have fun...and relax!

MJOR

Ahem! Size doesn't matter really... Its sort of like a power tool.... not much good unless you can use it!

LadyE

Size doesnt matter, its what you do with it that counts

Dont worry about it, honestly!

Im sure OP means 4 inches in circumferance, which ok!! Stop fretting!

Wibbs

The way I look at it is this; You have what you have so that's kinda that and as others have pointed out you're fine.

I'll tell you this very very few women ever left a guy because he had a small one and very very few women ever stayed with a guy because he had a big one. Put it another way, chances are pretty damn high that a lesbian would give a woman more orgasms than I would and I think it's safe to say I'd be packing more than she would. What's that tell you?

Marksie

Wibbs wrote: »

Put it another way, chances are pretty damn high that a lesbian would give a woman more orgasms than I would and I think it's safe to say I'd be packing more than she would. What's that tell you?

Or to put it another way.... concentrate on the non penetrative aspects, dont fall for the penocentric fallacy (phallusy ).
If your gfriend is drooling with pleasure before you even go near her with your perfectly adequate manhood, then it realy wont matter will it?

Lets also face it, you probably have an average tongue..and that can work wonders

LegacyUser

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* Average penis girth (circumference when erect): from 3.5 inches to 3.9 inches (8.8 cm to 10 cm)

Bit Surprised at this figure, seems smaller than I would of thought.