Cosmetic surgery

LegacyUser

Hey. I'm getting rhinoplasty in about 3 weeks and I'm a little nervous. Not really about the procedure as that hasn't really sunk in but it shouldn't be too much of a big deal...

What I'm worried about is people's reactions, Like friends I have or haven't told and my colleagues at work. I mean, as a kid I was slagged, now if I get it fixed I think I'll probably be bitched about or seen as vain. I work with kids and I hope I'm not seen as a bad influence on them too.

I'm actually kind of ashamed/ embarrased for myself at this stage, that it's come to this. Worrying about other people's reactions is getting in the way of my excitement.

What do you guys think? I know people get braces to get teeth fixed, but cosmetic surgery seems to still be taboo here...

chump

you'll be grand
just say it was to help your breathing or something, if anyone asks

you'll actually be surprised at how few people will mention it, or even notice it I am sure!

good luck

Toots

If it's something that makes you happy and feel more self confident then don't be embarrassed. Just go with what makes you happy. AFAIK a lot of plastic surgeons can recommend counsellors who you can talk to about any issues you have around coming to terms with your new appearance.

dudara

If this will make you feel better, and you're happy to accept the consequences that surgery entails, then go for it and be happy in your choice.

Good luck.

bug

Personally I see it the same as someone getting their teeth redone with veneers.

I think people will be admiring your new nose in work and in various surroundings.

I think once you're upfront about it there should be no problem.

As for the kids you work with, dependant on their age, there would be a different way of approaching it if asked. So as I'm sure you know already it depends on their age group.

DiscoHugh

I've had a rhinoplasty done (though that was actually due to a broken nose and deviated septum that was affecting breathing)

So if you wanted you could tell a little white lie and say it was due to restricted breathing through your nasal air passage.

You'd be surprised about how little people actually care about such things.

MJOR

DiscoHugh wrote: »

I've had a rhinoplasty done (though that was actually due to a broken nose and deviated septum that was affecting breathing)

So if you wanted you could tell a little white lie and say it was due to restricted breathing through your nasal air passage.

You'd be surprised about how little people actually care about such things.

+1

Toots

TBH, people will probably notice something 'different' about you, but won't be able to put their finger on what it is! One of my friends broke her nose when we were younger (got hit in the face with a tennis racket) and there was a slight bump in the bridge since. She had rhinoplasty last year, and 'unveiled' her new nose at one of our friend's 21st party. Everyone was asking her had she had her hair done, did she get new glasses, anything other than did she get her nose done. It was really subtle, which she said she was glad about, cos she didn't want everyone coming up and asking about it!! If you're worried about people asking etc, just don't go out socialising while you still have the splint on! There will probably be some bruising, but once this goes down it'll look pretty much back to normal!

davyjose

Get you boobs done while you're at it and nobody will notice

Seriously, I don't think anyone will care. If they do, I think it'll be positive. There's nothing wrong with a little self-improvement.

LegacyUser

No one will notice. I had it done a few years ago and the change was in my mind very noticeable. Laid low for a couple of weeks till bruising etc. sorted itself out and when I went back to work and going out with friends no one noticed. I did get a haircut to throw people off the scent and everyone commented on my lovely new hairdo!
I wouldn't bother mentioning it at all - people worry a lot more about their own imperfections than yours - I learnt that after the nose job It will take a while for swelling to go down and until you'll see the results, but having it done really had a good impact on my own confidence even if it mostly taught me that no one noticed my big imperfection anyway. Good luck with it!