cheaters

LegacyUser

iv just found out that my partner of 6 yrs has cheated on me many times wit the same girl while i was pregnant with his little girl. any ideas as what i should do?

akamossy

Only you can decide what you wana do. Its a devastating thing to find out but only you can decide if the relationship is strong enough to survive a revelation like this. Or whether you can trust him ever again. Take some time to yourself to think it through.

cHaTbOx

Yeah i agree ,only you can decide whether it is worth continuing the relationship. You should make the right decision for youself and not for the sake of the child, as growing up in an atmosphere of tension and resentment is very harmful.I would evaluate whether first of all if you love him , secondly , do you think you will be happy with him,thirdly , could you ever forgive him and fourthly,if you did forgive him would he do it again.

Quality

Heartbroken,

what a horrible situation to find yourself in.

How did you find out about this. Did he tell you? Or did you find out?

Dont make any rash decisions or actions before you know the absolute true story.

MagicMarker

This may sound stupid... But right not you have to think about this relationship without a child involved. If you take him back because you have a child together, you've made the wrong decision.

Trust me, a child with two seperated HAPPY parents, is much much better than a child with two angry, fighting, resentful parents in a relationship.

Personally, i would kick him out, he does not care for you and has no respect for you, you deserve better.

Carrigart Exile

heatbroken wrote: »

iv just found out that my partner of 6 yrs has cheated on me many times wit the same girl while i was pregnant with his little girl. any ideas as what i should do?

Might I ask how you found out?

AARRRGH

heatbroken wrote: »

iv just found out that my partner of 6 yrs has cheated on me many times wit the same girl while i was pregnant with his little girl. any ideas as what i should do?

Jesus woman, break up with him!

Do you really want a cheater, another woman, and another woman's child in your life?

Your partner is supposed to make your life better.

Get him and his **** out of your life!

lolly22

Hey op

Have to agree with Dublindude on this one.I cant see there being a good explination for this. It might seem hard at first but you need to move on with your life. You deserve better than this.

Best of luck
Lolly

jesus_thats_gre

He is a complete ****bag.. There is no other way of summing the situation up..

What to do is completely down to you though. No point in asking people who don't have a child to the man.

AARRRGH

dublindude wrote: »

Jesus woman, break up with him!

Do you really want a cheater, another woman, and another woman's child in your life?

Your partner is supposed to make your life better.

Get him and his **** out of your life!

Sorry OP, I misread your post.

I thought he cheated on you with another woman and got her pregnant.

I'd still be weary though. I think cheaters are different than non-cheaters. He'll always be tempted...

chickenhawk

If I found out that a person cheated on me I'd leave straight away.

Will you ever trust him again? If he has to stay late at work your mind will be in overdrive etc.

I know with a kid involved it's harder but a child shouldn't grow up in an unhappy home.

Carrigart Exile

As usual OP people are very tough on other people's relationships. If it was as easy as 'just leave him/kick him out' you wouldn't be on here. I wondered how you knew, because if all your hurt is based on telltale gossip I would hold back on any decision until you have had a talk with your other half.

chuci

once a cheater always a cheater i think. but thats my experience. obviously there is your little girl involved. how long ago did this happen?and how did you find out?