Next Move

ElDiego

Hello,

I will get to the point as quickly as possible, was in a long term relationship until last October (6yrs)............since then been out doing the single thing, met some girls the usual but nobody who got me really interested.

I was out last night and met somebody when I was leaving the bar I was in, we got talking and I really enjoyed talking to her and before I knew it.......it was nearly 230am. We swaped numbers and had a quick kiss (few seconds).

Question is my next move, yes I want to meet her again and I will call her to meet up but when is too soon? I txt her last nite to see if she got home ok but do I send her a general text today or wait until during the week and arrange something. Dont want to come on too strong or not interested if you know what I mean.

Thanks for reading

Oryx

Why not phone her and ask her out for some day later in the week. That to me would come across as interested but not ott.

lolly22

Hi op,

Want my advise, well i would say absolutely go for it:D
You spent the whole night chatting theres obviously a conection and you have to find out this can go anywhere further. Call her (what have you got to loose) tell her you enjoyed the other night and listen, if you think you might sound too keen just say what ever day is easy for her should be easy for you. You only live once so go for it

Best of luck
Lolly

davyjose

Text first, to test the water if you want, but you gotta follow it up with a call IMO.
If all that goes well, your quids in.

LegacyUser

+1
Definately text first before ringing. I think you might come on a bit strong if you ring and ask her out straight out....

MagicMarker

Yeah, just a quick text asking how she is, general chit chat and give her a call over the next couple of days and ask her out.

RedXIV

If ya haven't contacted by now, do it.


Not at this hour though