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Too sad - 8 year old boy hangs himself

  • 06-06-2008 5:32pm
    #1
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 5,268 ✭✭✭


    I thought it was important to post this - if only for recognition

    http://news.bbc.co.uk/2/hi/uk_news/england/lancashire/7440593.stm

    Poor boy :( He literally died of a broken heart. A beautiful kid, eyes full of wonder and excitement, he had so many things ahead of him. How could someone not notice something was wrong after what he went through.

    I am not often moved by things, but god damn.


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  • Moderators, Education Moderators, Technology & Internet Moderators Posts: 35,162 Mod ✭✭✭✭AlmightyCushion


    Story:
    An eight-year-old boy has been found hanged in his bedroom in Lancashire.

    Joshua Aldred was found unconscious by his grandmother in Lytham on Thursday night. He was taken to hospital in Blackpool but died a short time later.

    Joshua's mother and grandfather had recently died from cancer and his family believe it was a cry for help.

    His father Jason Aldred said: "He missed his mother and spoke of her often. Our very close relationship was of immense support to both of us."

    He said he believed his son only intended to hurt himself, not take his own life.

    "A tragic accident at home occurred when Joshua's sadness at the loss he had experienced at such a young age has resulted in this tragedy," he said.

    "The family are sure he expected to only injure himself slightly and are devastated that this cry for attention resulted in the loss of such a beautiful boy."

    A post-mortem examination carried out on Friday showed his death was consistent with hanging.

    Family liaison officers from Lancashire Police are now working closely with his relatives.

    Mr Aldred added: "Joshua Isaac Aldred was my beautiful son who was so tragically taken from me.

    "In his very short life, Joshua had faced the double tragedy of the loss of his mother, Sarah, from breast cancer on 17 March 2008 and his granddad, John, from prostate cancer, on 9 July 2007.

    "Outwardly this loving and happy child, who had a great network of family and friends to support him, coped admirably."

    Pupil support

    Joshua was a pupil at the independent King Edward VII and Queen Mary School in Lytham St Annes.

    A statement posted on the school website said: "We are shocked and saddened by news of the death of Joshua Aldred. He was a delightful eight-year-old who will be very sadly missed by everyone.

    "We are talking to the children and their parents in the preparatory school and are providing support to them.

    "Our deepest sympathy goes to Joshua's father and the rest of his family and we of course respect their rights to privacy at this sad time."


    Awful news. Absolutely tragic.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 14,277 ✭✭✭✭Rb


    Wow, that's awful :(


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 9,480 ✭✭✭projectmayhem


    horrible story... can't really imagine what the father is feeling right now


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 9,972 ✭✭✭orestes


    That's one of the most tragic things I've ever heard, awful stuff


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 1,312 ✭✭✭Daftendirekt


    Poor kid :(


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  • Closed Accounts Posts: 2,379 ✭✭✭Jimbo


    shocking stuff.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 86,729 ✭✭✭✭Overheal


    :(


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 29,293 ✭✭✭✭Mint Sauce


    poor kid

    :(


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 5,999 ✭✭✭GhostInTheRuins


    Perhaps I'm a bit naive, but I wouldn't have thought an eight year old would even know how to hang himself, or what the ramifications of it would be.

    Sad story either way.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 1,475 ✭✭✭Lil' Smiler


    That's crazy, when I was 8 i wouldn't have known about hanging myself or anything like that!!


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  • Closed Accounts Posts: 37,214 ✭✭✭✭Dudess


    Due to a certain comment posted here but deleted subsequently: If anyone wants to give this story Lolocaust treatment, feel free to do so... in the Lolocaust forum.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 743 ✭✭✭Mad Dog


    That is just so sad it's untrue :eek:


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 1,131 ✭✭✭MissHoneyBun


    Poor little fella. Heartbreaking.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 7,020 ✭✭✭eVeNtInE


    This post has been deleted.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 17,727 ✭✭✭✭Sherifu


    That's one very sad story.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 3,243 ✭✭✭kelle


    :(
    What a tragedy, I'm recalling an AH thread last week "When did you last cry?" - well, this is it for me.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 6,484 ✭✭✭Aisling(",)


    well that put me on a downer.

    poor kid.god knows what was going through his mind.
    so much to live for but he'll never have the chance to experience it now.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 14,277 ✭✭✭✭Rb


    horrible story... can't really imagine what the father is feeling right now
    Absolutely, the poor guy. Hope he gets through it ok and doesn't follow suit.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 28,128 ✭✭✭✭Mossy Monk


    One of those stories you just hate to read.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 1,312 ✭✭✭Daftendirekt


    Perhaps I'm a bit naive, but I wouldn't have thought an eight year old would even know how to hang himself, or what the ramifications of it would be.

    Sad story either way.

    Probably why he was able to go through with it.


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  • Moderators, Science, Health & Environment Moderators, Society & Culture Moderators Posts: 60,291 Mod ✭✭✭✭Wibbs


    To lose such potential and such innocence in such a cruel and wasteful way. To have language to describe the tragedy of that would be both a gift and a burden. RIP. :( + lots

    Rejoice in the awareness of feeling stupid, for that’s how you end up learning new things. If you’re not aware you’re stupid, you probably are.



  • Closed Accounts Posts: 5,677 ✭✭✭staker


    i just dunno what to say....his poor father,what he must be thinking, so,so,sad


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 11,331 ✭✭✭✭bronte


    Ah Jesus that is totally heartbreaking :(
    The poor little guy.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,005 ✭✭✭Creature


    That is really quite sad. Poor kid.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 6,889 ✭✭✭tolosenc


    Dudess wrote: »
    If anyone wants to give this story Lolocaust treatment, feel free to do so... in the Lolocaust forum.

    For the love of God, this is a bit much for even there.

    Requiescat In Pace.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 37,214 ✭✭✭✭Dudess


    That was in response to some moronic comment here earlier which has been deleted.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 4,893 ✭✭✭Davidius


    :(


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 2,379 ✭✭✭Jimbo


    Dudess wrote: »
    That was in response to some moronic comment here earlier which has been deleted.

    Not my comment, I would like to add, which has been edited by Dudess


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 668 ✭✭✭karen3212


    very sad, man can't imagine how much desperation his father will be going through now. It's very sad for this boy and all who knew him.


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,968 ✭✭✭jcoote


    ah the poor little lad.

    its hard to believe stuff like that actually happens.

    :(:(:(


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