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Lost in a silly way

  • 09-05-2008 4:36pm
    #1
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭


    Hi everyone i just need a small beating with a hamer maybe but hey.

    Ive been travelling for the past 9 months and before that i was away for a year but was home for a few weeks. So to the story il try make this a quickly to read as possible so i dont waste your time please bare with my spelling punctuation and grammer im dislexic.

    I meet this girl she was pretty easy going similer mentality, looked good any way things did'nt go the way I had hoped.

    It stung me quite hard tock me a few weeks to get over the fact of what I had lost because I really did see soemthing i liked, but at the same time she was nieve and slightly wet behinde the ears, but i liked the way she thought.

    Any way we kept in contact for a while but i just found it diffcult with the feelings i had for her we used to have arguements about stupid things that didnt really matter. Then she stoped emailing me I sent her one at crimbo and No reply so i figured she wanted to move on and forget me which i respected and thought maybe its best I deleted her email adress etc etc etc and moved on.

    Any way im just back from Norway 6 days and she emails me out of no where, my heart skipped a beat or 4..

    Heres the problem we emailed each other all day yesterday, she told me somehting else that shocked me, then she starst argueing with the fact that i party a little to much.. she flew of the handel and well i could feel eather resent or anger in the email like typicaly short female replies, hold on here i have my reasons. Ive got no ties nothing holding me down, Ive not got a girlfriend, I have every right to live and she was said " I supose "and i just ened the emails there wished her luck...

    thing is she's told me she wishs she had my life a fare few times as its pretty carefree i get to travel and make money which is good for instance i was on abus at 6.30 in the morning hyper as useuall while every one else had faces like some one had died. Im a happy person..

    Tho heres where the problem is I still do think about her so much, ive meet plenty of other girls. But I feel like I've lost out on something good, or maybe it's all my old feelngs coming back, her circumstances have changed im nto going to tell you how but the fact is she seemed very unhappy maybe even lonely...

    Thanks for your time


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 4,885 ✭✭✭JuliusCaesar


    Heres the problem we emailed each other all day yesterday, she told me somehting else that shocked me, then she starst argueing with the fact that i party a little to much.. she flew of the handel and well i could feel eather resent or anger in the email like typicaly short female replies, hold on here i have my reasons. Ive got no ties nothing holding me down, Ive not got a girlfriend, I have every right to live and she was said " I supose "and i just ened the emails there wished her luck...

    While communication by email and text is easy, it is distinctly lacking in body language by which I mean tones of voice as well. Phone her up, meet her face-to-face: that's how you'll sort out your issues.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭LegacyUser


    While communication by email and text is easy, it is distinctly lacking in body language by which I mean tones of voice as well. Phone her up, meet her face-to-face: that's how you'll sort out your issues.


    I couldnt agree more.

    But writeing out my problems was really hard talking to her at the moment about things like that might not be the best thing at this time.

    but You are right thanks .


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,024 ✭✭✭Redpunto


    What i dont get is why out of the blue is she giving you agro over the email?


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