Should I

LegacyUser

Anyway long story short, A girl who worked behind the bar in a club kinda asked me out, twice i said yes but on both occasions i stood her up, prior to her asking me out we were kinda kissing once/twice a week but nothing further.

We didn't really talk after i stood her up this was about a year ago but she started in a bar i frequent on a regular basis every sat night. Now it was hairy at first but we've started talking again. A little flirting but no kissing. She mentioned to me 2night when i asked if she ever gets a weekend off at all that she's off next friday, im just wondering should I ask her out.

I've started to feel differently towards her than when we were first were messing about and would like to take it further, any ideas?

Kelly O'Malley

Heaven knows why after you messed her about so much before but it sounds as if she's still interested.
I'd suggest you ask her out on a friendly basis, get to know her better before you take things further.

Sherifu

You've gotten more chances than you deserve OP. Third one's a charm. Ask her out this time for sure.

Overheal

I agree with Sherifu. Now or never friend.

Caoimhín

Fortune favours the brave my friend. Grab a hold of your nuts and go for it (dont literally do that though please.)

AARRRGH

Total no brainer! Ask her out!

anonymous_joe

You'd be a fool not to.

seahorse

Hmmm, I dont know. She's obviously prepared to be treated like a doormat. That wouldnt do anything for me in a partner.

Miss Fluff

She is obviously Roy Keane on you. In saying that, be 100% sure you DO want to go out with her rather than being a complete and utter numpty and standing her up yet again. You should also apologise for standing her up before.

Redpunto

What was the point of posting on here? To boost your ego? You now want to ask her out and not stand her up? Sounds like youre being a bit of a muppet.

sam34

sounds to me like this girl has had a lucky escape by being stood up by someone like you.