What do i do?

LegacyUser

Hi all, regular here but unreg today!

Looking for opinions and advice, be as brutal as you like, i probably need it!

I've been meeting up with a girl on regular albeit well spaced occasions. I do like the girl, in fact i could be going for something serious but with meetings happening once a week at best, it's hard to take it seriously as a relationship. Perhaps i need to elaborate. we live in seperate counties, i'm in college, she works full time. BUT i will be moving to Dublin (quite close to her) for the summer and i was hoping this might change things. However it's hard to get an accurate feeling about her desires, am i easy meat? (i will confess, i'm pretty easy ) or does she want something more too?

Now i would normally wait it out and see, only due to my VERY outgoing nature, i have a horrible habit of making friends with anyone i encounter. I will admit that i am a natural flirt, but because i flirt with EVERYONE, i never really think about it. But here's were my problem arose. Another girl has started to take this to another level and because of my already unstable position regarding my current object of affection, i have to admit, i've been playing along. this girl goes to the same college as me, and lives closer to home (but not by much).

Now i'm not entirely sure what i'm looking for, maybe opinions from guys saying what they'd do, maybe advice from the girls if i'm being to pessimistic about the original girl. but anything at all would help

Cheers

RedXIV

how you planning on making things work after the summer in Dublin? That would be the catch for me. apart from that wait till you move up and see what happens. see if you can suss out while your up there what she wants

AARRRGH

How long have you been seeing the first girl for?

What is your gut feeling telling you?

LegacyUser

how you planning on making things work after the summer in Dublin?

hadn't really thought about it, was just looking to solidify it over the summer really.

How long have you been seeing the first girl for?

not that long really, we met up about 2 months ago for the first time in ages (aquaintances through college) and ever since, we've been meeting up and we usually have alot of fun.

What is your gut feeling telling you?

It's saying go for the first one..... it's just i don't hear from her much and in every other relationship i've had, communication seems to flow. the second one is pretty much like the other relationships, lots of texts, IMing etc

Bob the Builder

Go with your gut instinct! Meet with her and see will it work, if there's potential, you'll work it out between ye!