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Ex-girlfriend back on the scene... confused

  • 27-04-2008 8:37pm
    #1
    LegacyUser
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    I'm wondering if any of you have had an ex-girlfriend come back on the scene, only for you to realise you still have strong feelings for her and that maybe you could have a great relationship again?

    I broke up with my ex-girlfriend for no reason in particular. I guess I felt I wasn't ready to settle down so I slowly began to resent her a bit and then eventually broke up with her. She never really did anything wrong.

    Well she's back on the scene and after meeting her it felt very comfortable and natural.

    This is all very confusing as I'm seeing someone else at the moment and I don't know what to do. I know if I did decide to get back with her I'd have to be really serious about it as I couldn't stand hurting her again. When I think about the future I can of a lot of worse things than being with her!

    I guess my question is do any of you understand this? Have you gone through this yourself? What happened?


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  • #2
    Kelly O'Malley
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    Sounds as if you're confused about more than just the reappearance of your ex.
    I would suggest giving the ladies - all of them - a total break for a while until you've sorted out your head a little.
    You'll just keep on hurting them until you do.
    You sound like a nice guy.
    Why not try single life for a bit.The ladies will still be around when you're ready for a relationship but they sure won't be if you hurt them because of your confusion now.


  • #3
    Creachadóir
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    How long ago did you two break up? What age-group do you fall into?


  • #4
    aye
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    Ummresigtered wrote: »
    I know if I did decide to get back with her I'd have to be really serious about it as I couldn't stand hurting her again. When I think about the future I can of a lot of worse things than being with her!

    sp basically you're saying if you get back with her, that will be it for you. But you dont sound so convinced. i would have thought "When I think about the future I can of a lot of worse things than being with her!" could have read "When I think about the future I can think of nothing better than being with her!"
    Kelly O'Malley wrote: »
    Sounds as if you're confused about more than just the reappearance of your ex.
    I would suggest giving the ladies - all of them - a total break for a while until you've sorted out your head a little.
    You'll just keep on hurting them until you do.
    You sound like a nice guy.
    Why not try single life for a bit.The ladies will still be around when you're ready for a relationship but they sure won't be if you hurt them because of your confusion now.

    +1
    i think going single for a while is a good plan.


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