Is is just a phase??

Quirkyduck

Please help, Ive been dumped by my boyfriend for nearly 2months now...we had been going out for a year and a half. It happened after his mocks which had been a shakey month between us stress wise. Apparnalty he had felt different for a while but from what I see it was only that month...everything else was as it had been.
I questioned him about why things were different and suddenly he told me he didnt love me anymore! I asked him was it a specific girl and he said yes....
This was coming from a guy who a month before had reassured me that no way would college stop us that there's no on better for him than me and that he loved me!
After we broke up he was very flirty one minute then completly cold the next and then he would get jealous of me and any other guy...when I confronted him about this he denied everything!! He eve tried to deny the other girl!!
At the moment were not even talking, he's acting as if nothings happened and has said he just wants to move on... coincedentally with that girl whom he disliked a few weeks before we broke up!!! He's now even doing medicince, the same course as her...I asked him last year would he ever do it and he said no way, the course is too long and he'd hate to be a doctor!!
As soon as we broke up he was texting her...someone who he said he could never be with because she's too materialistic!! Both of them are thinking about nothing but 600 points!!! I know nothing will happen with them after the LC but its killing me seeing them in school flirting....
Is the LC causing this and will he come back again?? I love him so much and we were perfect...

The Sweeper

Quirkyduck, you're too young for this and assuming you're in your LC year you need to be concentrating on your exams, not this bloke. He sounds - well, I was going to say he sounds like an idiot, but he just sounds like a hormonal teenager. Which I suppose also makes him an idiot by default.

No, he's not going to come back to you. Actaully, he might. Well maybe on Tuesdays. Or if his current squeeze dumps him. Or if he doesn't do well in his leaving cert. Then he'll leave you again. Or maybe not. Or maybe.

Do you really want that in your life? Move on. You've plenty more opportunities ahead of you to be perfect with someone.

RedXIV

let me point something out. Anyone who's aiming for 600 in the leaving, they are not going to be wanting a relationship. And if he gets medicine, thats a serious amount of work. You may love him to bits but trust me lass, you're in 6th year, you opinions WILL change in the coming years. Nobody believes this in 6th year but i'm TELLING you, you aren't 100% developed yet. leave it be

Redpunto

I know its bloody hard seeing this and he deseves a kick in the you know whats but please do not let this guy back into your life. Once youre out of the situation after the LC youll be glad this muppet is out of your life.....concentrate on your exams and burn all photos

buckfast4me

Hi op, frankly this fella sounds like an immature asshole who doesn't know what he wants. You sound like a great person and deserve much better.

davyjose

I don't think he's gonna come back OP, and from what I can tell be careful about throwing yourself at him, because he might just use you.

Saying that he's "felt this way for a while now" indicates that things have changed for him permanently. Sorry.