How to get over a girl you will see 2-3 times a week

LegacyUser

hi all.

regular contributer but goin unreg for this


Im 24.

issue is that, i was seeing a girl for a few months on and off.it finally came to a head and we had a big fight and dont talk anymore. im absolutly head over heals about this girl. it was love at first site and we really hit it off at the beginning.

the problem is that she lives in the same town as me and will probably see her in the shop or the pub 2- 3 times a week. (not to mention driving by each other nearly every day)

I just seen her in the local shop and i nearly had a heart attack. i mean my heart was pounding like never before.

i know she is going out with a fella now. and it kills me.

the simple question is..... How do i get over her if i see her so much???

any comment welcome good or bad.

Overheal

Im in that situation now pretty much. The first couple times it happens it will send you for loops, but like anything it gets easier. Suddenly youre both passing right next to eachother without a glance or a word. It just takes a bit of time.

In the meantime just get the feelings off your chest. Talk to your friend, or a counsellor or someone (but not her).

gamblitis

Just head out on the pull some night and you will see someone your head over heels for again.Its a vicious circle so unfortunately you just have to get out there and back on that horse!

judas101

you'll get over it. dont dwell on it too much.

time is a healer and all that stuff.

For God's sake dont make it worst and try and get back with her.

[Jackass]

gamblitis wrote: »

Just head out on the pull some night and you will see someone your head over heels for again.Its a vicious circle so unfortunately you just have to get out there and back on that horse!

+1

You just gotta give it time and move on. It sucks, but best way to go about it is go out and meet new girls and have a rebound/fling or whatever or you may even meet someone even better!! Best of luck anyway.

RedXIV

Best phrase ever used
"Best way to get over a girl is to get under another"

Been in situations like that in college and it's true! get one girl out of your head by getting another in it

LegacyUser

RedXIV wrote: »

Been in situations like that in college and it's true! get one girl out of your head by getting another in it

Trust me ive tried. ive been with 3 women since and txting new girls all the time but it just aint workin. aaaaaaggggghhhh

Irishcrx

I don't really agree that the best way to get over someone is to get with someone else, that will end you in a bad cycle trust me. You need to deal with this yourself and prove to yourself that you can get over her you will 100 times better this way, try and take your mind off her by taking up activities, don't show her that your bothered by this. But by all means go out with your friends, enjoy yourself time is a great healer.

Babette08

Irishcrx wrote: »

I don't really agree that the best way to get over someone is to get with someone else, that will end you in a bad cycle trust me. You need to deal with this yourself and prove to yourself that you can get over her you will 100 times better this way, try and take your mind off her by taking up activities, don't show her that your bothered by this. But by all means go out with your friends, enjoy yourself time is a great healer.

+1. It's all too easy to jump head first into another relationship just to prove you're over someone. Take your time, I'm sure she's on the rebound as well..trying to save face. Put your best 'I'm doing just great' face on when you see her and accept that you'll have the heart flutters for a while.

Trust me I had to see an ex of mine I was crazy about, who needless to say broke my heart, everyday for an entire year. It started out with me literally not being able to focus for what seemed like an hour afterwards to silently laughing to myself about how big a favour he'd done me