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Confused about sexuality

  • 16-04-2008 8:17am
    #1
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭


    going unreg for this one....

    Lately i have been very confused about my sexuality.

    Im a female and its not that I dont like men anymore but I have started to really look at women now too.

    I know this sounds stupid but i was watching the L Word last week and found the girls really attractive.....like more so than is normal if you were not confused if you know what i mean.

    I think I may be bisexual?? I just dont know

    I havent done anything about these feelings!!

    I dont really know what Im looking for to be honest - think i just needed to get it down on paper.

    Anyone else been in this situation before?


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  • #2
    Marksie
    Closed Accounts Posts: 6,395 ✭✭✭Marksie


    Persons sexuality isnt necessarily a set fixed thing at all. Its fluid and can alter with time.
    You may be questioning, or simply finding other women attractive. I know many women who have some point looked at other women.
    Some have "done something" about it to see if it bwas something they were intersted in pursuing, others have simply accepted that they can find members of the same sex attractive and left it at that.

    The confusion stems i guess from the fact that you are trying to fit your sexuality into a label


  • #3
    kayos
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,494 ✭✭✭kayos


    Your a sexual creature does it really matter what gender you do or dont find attactive? As Marksie says you dont have to fit into one label or another. You dont have to do anything about it just know that you can find someone of the same sex attractive. If you ever want to take that from looking from afar to doing something about it then thats your choice and sod any one that has a problem with it.

    Consenting adults and all that.


  • #4
    dory
    Moderators, Recreation & Hobbies Moderators Posts: 4,575 Mod ✭✭✭✭dory


    Well in fairness, those women (L Word) are really attractive!
    Do you fancy girls in real life? Most of my friends who are really honest have admitted to liking girls at some stage. I think I only know 1 girl who has said she is 100% straight.
    PM me if you want, I know another board just for lesbians/bi women and they are damn good at advice!


  • #5
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭LegacyUser


    Thanks for your replies!

    yeah i do find "ordainary" woman attractive too......

    I find myself day dreaming about what it would be like to be with another woman....

    Dory - thanks i'll Pm you now :)


  • #6
    Nevyn
    Closed Accounts Posts: 43,045 ✭✭✭✭Nevyn


    Yes aperson's sexuality is constantly growing and changing but there is a differecne betweeh noticing women and wanting to hug and touch them and wanting to lick them out.


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  • #7
    Jigsaw
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,509 ✭✭✭Jigsaw


    Thaedydal wrote: »
    Yes aperson's sexuality is constantly growing and changing but there is a differecne betweeh noticing women and wanting to hug and touch them and wanting to lick them out.

    Good advice here,

    And, erm......wonderfully candid!


  • #8
    She Devil
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 9,032 ✭✭✭She Devil


    Ah i got caught up in that L word last year ....
    The Sex scenes really turned me on, i'd never look at a girl and say wow i'd love to sleep with her, but it was just that programme that did it for me. :) I'm 100% straight but its not abnormal to find other genders attractive .. and if you do why not be curious and try it out ...
    Its the 21st Century girl, go for what makes you happy. You will never until you go!


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