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  • 11-04-2008 11:21am
    #1
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,012 ✭✭✭✭


    Hi Everyone,
    Going to go unreg for this I could use some advice if you can help it would be appretieated.

    Split with the ex 6 months ago, we were still in the same house till just past Christmas.
    So shes gone now and we are still texting, ( cue the you need a break people )
    anyway we were talking about some previous fights we had one in particular where she was talking to a friend in her job (its a hotel) so she is out there for a few minuites while im watching having a pint. then she goes into the toilet with him after a few moments i leave her bag at the bar and walk off. she eventually catches up with me and we have a blazing row. now yesterday when I was talking abbout it she said she never went into the toilet.
    I asked her do yoou think I am making it up, and she said yes. theres been a whole lot more things like this where Ive been left sitting watching my watch and she claims it was " only 5 minuites " when its been a hell of a lot longer.

    so now she is texting me I had been texting back till last night but now Im wondering should I bother with someone who will never see the truth?

    Im literally sitting here with the mesage written out and wondering shouuld I press send or just delete the number ?


Comments

  • #2
    Drift
    Closed Accounts Posts: 1,395 ✭✭✭Drift


    Of course you shouldn't text back. What possible reason do you have for arguing with her. She's your ex, it sounds like neither of you are planning on getting back together so why put yourself through the hassle of arguing with her. She's never going to say you're right and you're never going to say she's right. All you're doing is wasting credit and time.


  • #3
    rstans
    Closed Accounts Posts: 187 ✭✭rstans


    Don't go near her again. I made that mistake nine years ago "because I loved her".
    What an idiot.
    Married the bitch and am now going through a messy expensive separation and divorce.
    Leave the texts unanswered and save your sanity.


  • #4
    Wagon
    Closed Accounts Posts: 3,119 ✭✭✭Wagon


    Yeah she probably did cheat on you with this guy in the jacks. Why would I say that? Because she's an ex girlfriend and why would you want to see the good side to her? Assume the worst happened. If she denies it she's lying. If it upsets her then who cares? Shes a bitch! :)

    Keep that logic in mind when you don't text her, delete her number and never have anything to do with her again. Why would you want those arguments?


  • #5
    kittensoft1984
    Closed Accounts Posts: 1,124 ✭✭✭kittensoft1984


    delete her number and dont text her.

    I tried doing this with an ex of mine and it doesnt work.

    The best thing you can do is to just ignore her and move on.


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