Am I an emotional retard?

LegacyUser

Long time reader, first time poster - going unreg for this one.

I met this girl at the shop the other day. I've seen her before, and I'm sure she's seen me too.
I think she goes shopping at the same time as me so that she can be close to me. But lately she's been varying her times of shopping a bit more than usual. Is she giving me the runaround? Or is this the come-on, is she getting a bit antsy because I haven't made a move yet?
How should I approach her?

St Bill

Yes you are an emotional retard, and in all probability that girl realises it too and so has changed her shopping pattern so she doesn't bump into you.
You shouldn't approach her, probably

ShaneU

Maybe you're the one who goes shopping at the same time to see her?

humanji

Maybe the time she goes shopping is random and just happened to coincide with when you went?

Miss Fluff

What rhymes with "Groll" and one lived under a bridge in the story of The Billy Goat's Gruff? Hmm?

Caoimhín

St Bill wrote: »

Yes you are an emotional retard, and in all probability that girl realises it too and so has changed her shopping pattern so she doesn't bump into you.
You shouldn't approach her, probably

LoL, Very well said. Firm but fair.

Balmed Out

Maybe your right about her liking you too but you cant be serious about thinking your the reason shes changed her shopping habits?

sillymoo2007

emotional? wrote: »

Long time reader, first time poster - going unreg for this one.

I met this girl at the shop the other day. I've seen her before, and I'm sure she's seen me too.
I think she goes shopping at the same time as me so that she can be close to me. But lately she's been varying her times of shopping a bit more than usual. Is she giving me the runaround? Or is this the come-on, is she getting a bit antsy because I haven't made a move yet?
How should I approach her?

I'm sorry but this really got me giggling, When you say you met this girl at the shops have you actually ever spoken to her? or has She ever given you any reasons for thinking she's shopping at the same time as you for any other reason than quite simply just doing her shopping.

I find it quite freaky that you monitor her shopping routine and because she hasnt been shopping at the same time lately you have the balls to think she's giving the run around!!! Emotional retard i dunno but could certainly add some other words to the list!!!

Joanne87

sillymoo2007 wrote: »

I'm sorry but this really got me giggling, When you say you met this girl at the shops have you actually ever spoken to her? or has She ever given you any reasons for thinking she's shopping at the same time as you for any other reason than quite simply just doing her shopping.

I find it quite freaky that you monitor her shopping routine and because she hasnt been shopping at the same time lately you have the balls to think she's giving the run around!!! Emotional retard i dunno but could certainly add some other words to the list!!!

+1 I was just thinking the exact same thing! Unless you've actually spoken to her or know her (outside the shops!) then it's a teeny bit stalker-ish that you know her shopping routine and are alarmed when she changes it.

But I for one am going to give you the benefit of the doubt and hope that you were just a bit unclear and uninformative in your post. :rolleyes:

Overheal

I'd put this one back in the Frozen Goods aisle before someone blows the whistle to store security

Caoimhín

Joanne87 wrote: »

+1 I was just thinking the exact same thing! Unless you've actually spoken to her or know her (outside the shops!) then it's a teeny bit stalker-ish that you know her shopping routine and are alarmed when she changes it.

+1, Creepy.

Redpunto

If I thought some guy was following me around the shops, I'd vary my shopping times to avoid him!

chuci

are you and emotional retard?? the short answer is yes yes you are.

Overheal

Id say the issue is social, less so emotional.

Marksie

Apart from the immediate response of this is stalkerish behaviour, i fail to see the PI
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