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Off the Pill

  • 02-04-2008 11:31am
    #1
    TURRICAN
    Closed Accounts Posts: 717 ✭✭✭


    Ive been going out with my fiancee for 10 years.during the relationship i started smoking pot.recently we had an arguement and ended up nthat she wanted time apart.since then i gave up the pot ,which i believe was the problem in our relationship.it was like the pot came first.im off it now for a week and im trying to make up for the mess iv,e created.
    a couple of days ago she told me shes not taking thw pill anymore.then after that she told me she was horny one night,so she jumped on me but nothing really happened.
    now im confused.does she need more time?Why did she stop the pill.im afraid to ask her why as she would either tell me to m.m.o.b or flip out.:confused::(


Comments

  • #2
    Beruthiel
    Moderators, Social & Fun Moderators Posts: 42,362 Mod ✭✭✭✭Beruthiel


    You know her 10 years.
    If you cannot talk to her after that length of time, then you need to ask why.


  • #3
    TURRICAN
    Closed Accounts Posts: 717 ✭✭✭TURRICAN


    Beruthiel wrote: »
    You know her 10 years.
    If you cannot talk to her after that length of time, then you need to ask why.
    i try asking her but she shuts me out.i wouldnt be the greatest man in a relationship and when she does that it hurts.


  • #4
    Beruthiel
    Moderators, Social & Fun Moderators Posts: 42,362 Mod ✭✭✭✭Beruthiel


    TURRICAN wrote: »
    i try asking her but she shuts me out.i wouldnt be the greatest man in a relationship and when she does that it hurts.

    Have you told her that?


  • #5
    all the stars
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,062 ✭✭✭all the stars


    maybe after 10 years she wants kids?

    Maybe she's just had enough of taking hormones and wants her body to return to normal


  • #6
    TURRICAN
    Closed Accounts Posts: 717 ✭✭✭TURRICAN


    Beruthiel wrote: »
    Have you told her that?
    no the only reason being it makes me look weak and i dont want that.isnt that what women look for in men


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  • #7
    Beruthiel
    Moderators, Social & Fun Moderators Posts: 42,362 Mod ✭✭✭✭Beruthiel


    TURRICAN wrote: »
    no the only reason being it makes me look weak

    Being honest makes you look weak?
    You've a lot to learn.


  • #8
    TURRICAN
    Closed Accounts Posts: 717 ✭✭✭TURRICAN


    all the stars wrote: »
    maybe after 10 years she wants kids?

    Maybe she's just had enough of taking hormones and wants her body to return to normal
    we have one little girl who we both love very much.she always said she wants more children.Maybe thats why:eek::rolleyes::)
    maybe not though,after the time apart she said theres a little bit of her wants to try again at the relationship.its my fault for all this


  • #9
    TURRICAN
    Closed Accounts Posts: 717 ✭✭✭TURRICAN


    Beruthiel wrote: »
    Being honest makes you look weak?
    You've a lot to learn.
    yeah i think so.i just trying to do whats best before i loose everything


  • #10
    dudara
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 33,518 ✭✭✭✭dudara


    You will really have to try to overcome your fear here. One half of a relationship cannot come off the pill without talking it over with the other half. It's a big decision to make and can affect your lives.

    Being honest is a very hard thing to do. It requires a lot of strength and bravery. So stand up and talk to her.


  • #11
    all the stars
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,062 ✭✭✭all the stars


    TURRICAN wrote: »
    we have one little girl who we both love very much.she always said she wants more children.Maybe thats why:eek::rolleyes::)
    maybe not though,after the time apart she said theres a little bit of her wants to try again at the relationship.its my fault for all this

    So you already have a family toghether. Then you need to speak & be clear all the more.


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